You love your gf/bf so much that your afraid to do something that might make her/him mad. She/he's been complaining on the things that you've been doin. You're not free to move around without his / her consent. Are you willing to change everything about you just to please your partner?
2007-02-16 12:09:56 · 9 answers · asked by ♫♪♥♥♪♫ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well instead of saying no never and leaving them or letting them push you over/around all the time..you have to come to a compromise. A middle ground if you will. If you truely love each other then you should meet each other halfway on all things that matter.
No one should be in control all the time. If you are constantly pushed around by your bf/gf you'll grow to resent them and the love you once had for that person will fade.
2007-02-16 12:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
h@ll no. I mean, if they don't like you for the way you are, then time to move on. I have to admit that I was married to a man and this was how our relationship was. In the end, it did not work out and I was left a shell of my former self. Doubting everything I did and having the self esteem of a slug. In a relationship, you have to work to please each other or it will never work so that both are happy. This is something that took me nine long years, a divorce, two kids and a good cry later.
2007-02-16 12:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People should except you as you are. Sounds like you or whoever this is is in a controlling relationship... It starts with one thing then you change it because you love the person then its another thing & another thing... But really you shouldnt change for anyone, you have to do all the things that you want to do in yourlife, & theres someone out there who'll love you for who you are, cant spend life walking around on eggshells...
2007-02-16 12:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me hun. No matter how much you love them its not good. Someone who controls that much of you is bad. And you'll find out later, if you are in a diiferent relationship that being free(not to do whatever you want) but like not in a controlling relationship that its a lot better than the controllingone your in. I wouldnt change.. hope ive helped
2007-02-16 12:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't, because I don't feel it is right to try and control what a partner does; no matter what. If a guy ever tried to tell me what to do and where to do it at I would be right out of the door.
2007-02-16 12:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would first try talking to her, telling her that I need a little space. If she doesn't understand or if she just refuses to back off a little, I would break up with her; one can only stand so much suffocation like that.
2007-02-16 12:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by 0dd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be yourself with this gf/bf, how can you be happy?
You should be yoursefl, and if the gf/bf does not like it, then you should move on. Always be true to yourself, never change to please others.
Good Luck
2007-02-16 12:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by rapger54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NEVER!Someone who controls you is not a good gf/bf
2007-02-16 12:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by Amber _rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY BYE BYE!! Cuz you dont need to be controlled physically, mentally, or emotionally!!! And be yourself.. it sucks trying to be someone else youre not!
2007-02-16 12:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by csmutz2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋