well im so totally liking this girl right now and i spend most of my time with her any way shes with someone, im not particularlly fond of the lad but its beside the point. shes invited me to come out during the week do i take this as a hint or just as kindness shes told me on numerous occasions that she likes me alot yet shes still with this other guy she asks me every now and then if i still like her, i like her alot and i mean alot. iv been in and out of serious relationships but this girl seems to be the one she has all the things you could look for in a girl back to the point, we have been really close for awhile now and weve actually told eachother that we like eachother since about october 06, its getting to the point where when im not around her i just cant do anything that i want i want to be with her so much. so what should i do? go for it and tell her that we shud get together? or just play it slow? wait for the time and just kiss or something and see what happens? thanks =]
2007-02-16 12:01:31 · 3 answers · asked by Alex <3 =] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really like her that much whats stoping you from saying something. i wouldn't worrie about that other guy. you need to say something. don't wait too long. it is good advice. the longer you wait the more ockward things get.......
2007-02-16 12:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, its pretty sorry that she is going to go behind her boyfriends back and do that to him. [saying that she likes you]. But anyway. This is a tough one. If you've liked her and she says that she's liked you since october '06 and hasnt done anything about it, then she is just using you for a backup in case something goes wrong with the man she has now. & she's checking to make sure you still like her, just to make sure she still has you as her backup. One day, yes, her and her boyfriend will breakup and then she's going to be like oh i like u so much lets be together and then shes going to get back with her old boyfriend. Sweetie, i am sorry to say, but she is playing you like candyland. Obviously she is attention deprived because the attention she is getting from her boyfriend just isnt enough and she needs your attention as well. I would stop showing her so much attention and NOT take the offer up on going out during the week and see what she does. You should stop trying so hard to be with her..If she really wants you, she will come to you. I know you didnt want this as an answer but I am female and girls just know.
2007-02-16 20:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. just remember she is w/someone .How would you like it, if she did this to you?? You make her out to be someone wonderful, but just remember she is in a way cheating on her bf. Think about it. If you tell her how you feel, ask her if she feels the same and if she is willing to end things with her current bf to be with you. Its not right to pursue someone that is in a relationship, even if she is responding to you. If she was a good person, she would do the right thing by her bf and either leave him or stay and be loyal. Sorry.
2007-02-16 20:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋