Abt 3 yrs ago I met this girl and we became real good friends & as the friendship progressed she started hinting about her feelings for me and even went as far as saying the qualities she looks for in a hubby she may have found them in me. I was like ok since you're feeling me in that way lets try a bf/gf relationship as soon as I suggested that she started speaking in codes and riddles & I wasnt prepared to play guess who so I just kinda pulled away from her. Now fast forward about 2 yrs & we jus started speaking again and she keeps on making jokes of marriage with me & would go as far as interjecting 'u like me' 'u luv me' in the conversation wen we kd b tlkin abt say the weather. I eventually told he I liked her & askd how she felt & she was like u're cool, u're ok as a friend now i'm confused, cos she'll be askin me sexual questions & den applyin dem 2 her like do I like 2 get head & den she'll say cos she dnt like givin it. Does she love me as just a friend or more than a friend?
2007-02-16 12:00:25 · 6 answers · asked by Alaoma O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is not even a friend ..she is playing games with you..messin with your head.
2007-02-23 21:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound to me like she's just flirting with you to get some attention.
try and ask her straight out if its just friendship shes after or more because your confused.
tell her you dont like guessing games
adn if she only likes you as a friend then suggest to her that she keeps the flirty coments to herself because it confuses you.
if you dont want to do that one other way of findingout is start talking about another girl you like just make one up if you dont like
another girl and see how she reacts.
and if she says stuff like o right ya gone off me now then
just say to her why do you like me more than a friend and if she says no then just ask her whatthe problem is then
you never know she might just end up having a grown up convasation with you.
and stop playing silly little games.
i dont like people that play guessing games either. its just an attention thing.
good luck
2007-02-16 12:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by crystaluk662 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just lay it out straight for her, stop messing about, either you want this, or you don't. If you want to play giggly girl games, get lost, if you want to grow up and give it a go, get with it!
Plan B would be to drag her to bed and see what happens. See if she's all mouth, or she means it.
2007-02-16 12:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like shes really messing with your head,if u really like her ask her straight out wether she wants it 2 be anything more than friends but if i was you i wouldn't waste my time.Sounds like shes really playing you.
2007-02-24 10:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes just playin you a bit!
i think you both need to sit down and talk about it instead of playing games with each other!
2007-02-16 20:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now i am confused... it's like before she's the one hinting about marriage and now it seems you're the one insisting to be married with her. she love s u or not? or do u love her? if not, don't waste your time.........in this silly things.
2007-02-24 08:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by President Of D' Clan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋