I get nervous when people come over because I've been told that you're being rude if you don't offer these things. I tend to just want to talk and see what they want and what I can do.
2007-02-16 11:53:54 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
yes it is part of being hospitable ,and i am sure you apreciate it when you visit other people
do unto others as they do unto you
or treat people as you want to be treated
that is what social behaviour is all about
i have visited many poor people all over the world (in the bush in rural Africa and in the jungles of Mexico)in their homes and the first thing they do is offer food and drink
a lot of rich people do the same
2007-02-16 12:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just plain rude to not offer a refreshment to your guests. If they have shown up unannounced, and you don't want company, then politely inform them that it is not a good time and would they like to come around another time. If you have invited them, offer something specific, a cup of tea and some cookies perhaps. You can never go wrong with being hospitable.
2007-02-20 17:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Oscar Fish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I offer something to drink, whatever I have on hand. I'll offer a snack if I have them on hand (I usually don't) If I know people are coming over, to watch a movie, a game, game night, I'll buy snacks and drinks. I never feel compelled to feed a "just thought I'd stop by...:" visitor.
2007-02-16 21:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me, it depends on how long they r staying, if they r only staying a few minutes, for a quick chat, then i usually dont tend to offer nething. if they r staying for 30 and up, then i set out some chips, dip, water, juices, sodas, like a little snack buffet, so they can feel comfortable. put the snacks in an easily excessable place, so u can still talk and they can be comfortable.
2007-02-16 20:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proper ettiquette dictates that a host should always offer a drink and other refreshments. However, it doesnt mean they get to have your favorite chair or the last snicker bar. anyway yes do offer, it makes people more comfortable. I find it awkward to ask for a glass of water even at my mother's house.
2007-02-16 20:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to, but it is the polite thing to offer them something such as a small snack.
Uninvited:
1. Chips and Salsa
2. Crackers and Cheese
3. Canned nuts
4. Sodas/juices/water
2007-02-16 20:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by makingyouhateme 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is good manners to offer your company something to eat, most of the time they will say "no" to be polite, or you could just say "I would offer you something, but I haven't been to the store" if you do not want to give anything up.
2007-02-16 21:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by bigern1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least offer them a cup of coffee,or if it's a hot day then offer a tall glass of iced tea.
2007-02-16 22:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, always offer your company something to drink, at least.
2007-02-16 22:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy Lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the polite thing to do is ask once if they are interested in food or drink. If someone is not coming over explicitly for dinner or drinks, then you are not required to keep food on hand just for them.
2007-02-16 20:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋