Well im with this girl, have been for a while, we both get angry and ive beat her up and assulted her in wrong ways before. she says i have to stay with her forever or she will tell the police what i have done and get me sent down. i dont want to be with her she has eye witnesses to what i have done aswell please help
2007-02-16 11:42:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she still wants to be with you after you beat her then you must not hit very hard, that makes you a wuss
2007-02-16 11:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would enroll yourself in some sort of abusive rehab class. If you have done these serious actions of battery, you can get in trouble. Yet, if you take steps to reform your behavior, then you are showing the world that you don't want to be this abusive person. The girl seems very manipulative anyway and I would not stay with her. She doesn't seem to care about you if she threatened to "turn you in." Before you decide anything with your relationship, go to a professional and/or your parents and tell them what's going on. It shows a lot of courage if you go and try to fix how you manage your anger.
2007-02-16 19:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by AndyS22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one get some helf. it's never ok to put your handson a woman. If all else fails when your angry, walk away, I understand not wanting to be with someone but no one can force you to stay in a relationship. in my opinion I think you both need helf (her for wanting to stay through the abouse) but not my business. Try to talk to her and let her know that you don't think that it will work. And even if she does call the police as long as she doesn't have any marks on her at the time it doesn't matter what she tells the. there's no pruff. Just stop putting your hands on her. do yourself and her that favor (sorry so harsh but that's something that always bothers me)
2007-02-16 19:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by N.O.CENTS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really kind of got yourself into this situation. You shouldn't have assaulted her no matter how angry you were! Now, your only hope is that she will forgive you and when you beg for her to let you go, she will. Tell her you are very sorry for what you did, but you need your own life, and you need to break away from her sooner or later. Tell her she will find a man much better than you ever were, and he will never assault her, and she will live happily ever after. Although it may seem like you are basically insulting yourself (which you are), it might just work! Hope I helped.
2007-02-16 19:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tip #1. Don't ever look another convict in the eye.
Tip # 2. Always shower alone if possible,if not wear your underwear.
Tip #3. If asked by any prison authorities anything answer with I don't know I didn't see anything, or I slipped on the wet floor.
Tip#4.Never let another convict borrow anything from you and never offer anything to another convict.
Tip #5. If at all possible join a prison gang.
2007-02-16 19:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me she is the type who falls for guys who abuse her. You are abusing her because you don't like her and it is a turn on for her. How pathetic!
To be honest I don't have much respect for men that beat women up, sorry pal. You should go to jail! She should tell the police! If she doesn't and wants to cling onto you she will only get beat up again and again. Why do you have to beat her up? Do you enjoy beating up someone who is weaker then you, does that make you feel much more like a man? Why don't you try beating up the cop who comes knocking at your door!
2007-02-16 19:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell would you hit a girl to begin with? That aside...break up, damit! She has no real proof other than hearsay, unless she has marks on her from where you hurt her. Child...if you get busted for this, I can't begin to feel sorry for you. I don't see how you CAN ...but if you hit a woman or "assault her in other ways", you need serious help! Don't you understand that when you hit your partner, it only shows what a wuss you are? Breaking up with her is the LEAST of your worries.
2007-02-16 19:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sign yourself up for anger management classes and break up with her. when you do, tell her that you'll file blackmail charges. fire with fire, right?
i'm glad you realize that what you've done is wrong, but understand that what she is doing is not only wrong, but unhealthy for both of you. anger is a natural emotion, but it's your responsibility to find healthy and effective ways to channel that energy: play basketball, go to the driving range, slam a door when no one is around. if she calls the cops, 'fess up, stay calm, and get a good lawyer. if they see that you're doing what you need to do to improve yourself, you'll have a better chance of going free.
2007-02-16 19:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Julie N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard questian to ask
u could dump her but then u risk going to jail
and if u don't u might be stuck with her forever my advice is to dump her take your chances
if u do not truly love her u shouldn't be with her and if she really loves u, she wouldn't be doing this
plus 10 years in jail is better than a fraud love.
2007-02-16 19:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by bronx b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really so need to stop the abuse. If you think you need help go see someone. You also need to get out of the relationship if thats what u want. If she turns you in talk to them about her traping u there,
2007-02-16 19:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by eeyore_smiles_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to say. If you don't want to be with her then you'll have to suffer the consequences. If I were go seek some anger management. Both of you need to go.
2007-02-16 19:48:18 · answer #11 · answered by crazy1011 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋