I like this guy, lukas, and we started out by writing notes and hanging out and everything. then all of a sudden he said he couldn't go out with me but he thought i was really hot. now i recently had a party and he came we hung out and he would come up to me and tickle me. we also had an ice fight and poured ice down each others shirts. i thought we were going good again he smiled when he saw me the next couple of days but then thingturned around and he dosn't even look at me anymore. i really really like him and he seemed to like me at the party, but what happened. we are both 13 by the way but answer honestly and i don't want anyone saying that we are young and everything cause it is important right now no matter how young i am please answer
2007-02-16 11:36:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey what to do for you date him, i think he's cute and gentle, if i live where you live i would date him, don't let go this chance, ask him for a date and everyone would be happy (only if he says yes)
for everyone i mean:
4 u: becuz you love him since a long time ago, and at least he will be yours
4 HIM: because as you mention it he needs love that could be given from a girlfriend
4 ME: I really want to see you both together, i know you dont kknow me but i want you both to be a couple
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
when you are a couple sendme a
comment to my yahoo answers
account, and then i will be happy
but please ask him for a date or
at least ask him to be your friend
my account is lee_t78 but write as an answer cause i havent an e-mail
2007-02-17 08:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the party it sounds like he was just flirting. He might be going through phases in his life or something and is have some problems or he might just be ignoring. I once liked a guy who was really nice, but he tended to be really shy too. He never hung out around us girls so it wasn't unusuall that he didn't talk to me. We would be at a party and have a really great time together and then for a couple of months there would be nothing. I have always thought that because he was kinda shy he didn't want to go out of his way just to talk to me or say hi and that he didn't want anyone to know that he liked me, but everyone said that it was obvious we liked eachother, but I didn't see it half the time. I just treated him the same way he treated me...said 'Hi', but didn't go out of my way just to talk to him. We were also kinda young and we both knew that we were to young for any relationships at that time.
2007-02-16 19:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by KatyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you and is not ready to become involved in a one-on-one relationship that is exclusive with one girl. It is okay to have fun with a guy but do not take playful behavior too seriously. Males tend to VERBALIZE what they really feel, IF and WHEN they really have feelings for a young woman. If the guy does not TELL you he is interested in seeing you and honestly, pursue you, then he is probably just having innocent fun for the moment and not planning a future with you. Relationships take time to form and to grow. Stop stressing and enjoy fun times and social relating. "Physical" can get you into a world of confusion, regret and disappointment unless you get to be real friends with guys, first. Best wishes.
2007-02-16 19:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u get older u'll find out that guys are just stupid sometimes. guys are always like that to me. they act all interested and they flirt like crazy then all of a sudden they act like ur a complete stranger. i think u should confront him about it. it's the only way to get the truth. i know it's hard and awkward to confront him but how else will u find out?
2007-02-16 19:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♪♠♫peacelovehappiness♫♠♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that age some parents do not want there kids having boy friends or girl friends. Maybe he is not allowed yet. You should talk to him about it.
2007-02-16 19:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....maybe you can try talking to him...maybe something went wrong at home or he just likes you too much that he to afraid to talk...even though he liked u at the party he probably didnt think of u like that...well hope u figuare things out!!!
2007-02-16 19:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you want us to answer honestly but not tell you your too young?
Well, it's like...
Can't do it, I'll settle for the points.
2007-02-16 19:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from an older person and one that has been there trust me he is playing you get over it and move on with your life
2007-02-16 19:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay- maybe he can't date- or is girlfriend you don't know about- his friend went out with you- good luck!
2007-02-16 19:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by marysheckler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋