my boyfriend has an x who he is still friends with. He doesnt talk to her really, but when we first met he bragged about her a lot, and doesnt now because im his girlfriend but I dont like it am I over reacting?
2007-02-16 11:24:28 · 7 answers · asked by James 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you are overreacting they can still be friends there is nothing wrong with that. He is respecting you by not talking to her all the time dont make it like you are trying to control the guy its totally normal.lol
2007-02-16 11:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you're overreacting. Feeling that way is completely normal. However, just make sure you don't limit him in any respect, because then he will come to resent you. Try not to get angry often or express jealous emotions all the time. But yes, exs can be friends. I dated a guy for two and a half years and now we're friends. good luck : ]
2007-02-16 19:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, depending on the maturity of all people involved. I am friends with most of my ex-boyfriends, I even live with one as a roommate. If you trust him you need to work on your self-confidence, if you don't trust him than you need to find a differant relationship.
You should never be so insecure that you try to control who someone else talks to.
2007-02-16 19:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends y yall broke up and if u still deep down have fellings for him if so it will be very hard and if u dont think you do but once yall start hanging outif u start getting jelous and other things like that it means you still have feelings and it will be hard to just have friends
2007-02-16 19:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I was friends with all my exboyfriends and yes we did it more after we were just friends. If you feel funny about it talk to him that your not okay with it. this means you don't trust him or her. Don't set your self up to get hurt by some ex girl. Is his name Dustin if so leave him fast.
2007-02-16 19:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they could but i HIGHLY advise against it if they were together for a long time, because who ever was dumped, might still have feelings for the other person and it just dosnt work out
2007-02-16 19:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of cource you can still be freinds that how you started out... and it honestly just depends on the guy if he is a freakin pig and she is a slut then no your not overeacting
2007-02-16 19:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by -=N/\TE-T|-|E-GR/\ET=- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋