She is only three and she is already getting my other sister and I into trouble. (See my 360 page for a picture of the little monster). She is so mean and when I try to talk to my parents about it, all they say it "Stop making up pathetic lies to get your little sister into trouble. She would NEVER do something like that to you!" Guess what? she does! I absoultey hate her! What should I do?
2007-02-16 11:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
put in a camera in your room somewhere and leave it on and also hid somewhere and the record ur sister doing something bratty and then show it to ur parents. if u dont have a camera then use a microphone.
2007-02-16 11:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright I am probably gonna put this in a mean way but it's true an dyou just gotta face that facts. You don't hate her. And trust me you can't say that she's a devil because all three year olds were and are always going to be. You were a little monster when you were little I can be sure of that. And so was your other sister but you don't remember any of that because it was a while ago. Now when she gets older she'll respect you and you'll become friends. You need to be able to protect her because your her older brother and she depends on you, maybe not now but she will later. I have five older brothers and only one cared about me. Trust me if I was in trouble he was the only one I could talk to. He truely loved me and I knew he'd always be there. We always had so much fun together. You need to build that relationship with your sister when she gets older. And she'll always need her other sister for things that she'll be going through later in the future. Sure she bugs you now but in the future it'll all work out. Soon before you know it you'll bug her and she'll end up getting into her share of troubles. But for now you need to let the grudges go. Good luck and I hope it all works out for the better!
2007-02-16 11:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! I have a 4 yr old daughter that tells everyone Im going to kill her, even thoug ive NEVER said anything like that to her but the inlaws look at me like...shes 4, she would not lie! My husband thinks its really funny also, dang him. Just dont be mean to her. Love her. Play games with her. She wants your attention and when you complain you start to sound like the jealous sibling. She is only 3 after all, you can beat her at her own game
2007-02-16 11:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid there's no hope. Just watch your back and try to keep your nose clean. Your parents are not likely to believe you no matter what happens.
To make matters worse, my little sister eventually grew to be 6 inches taller and at least 70 pounds heavier than me. Do not mess, with my little sister.
2007-02-16 14:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by sdc_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u should try to do some things that she wants to do with her I have a sister of my wn who is very demanding and I usualy do what she wants me to and she loves me to death. I know its hard to play things with little kids because there boring but it is worth a shot. If she is still mean take it up a step an try to get some evidents so maybe your perrents will belive u. sorry if I am not much help.
2007-02-16 11:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 3 for goodness sake - you were 3 once. A 3 year old does not have the ability to be "mean" as they lack the necessary emotions. They can be cheeky, naughty, curious and sellfish, but not mean. You do not hate her - just grow up yourself.
2007-02-16 11:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's in all threat in basic terms hitting puberty and dealing with the hormones and stuff. you're able to consult together with her approximately how she feels. For each and everything she complains approximately no longer lots can do if she does not comprehend you're getting privileges by using fact your older you cant make her.
2016-09-29 05:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by barnell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set her up to get caught by your parents. That's all I had to do to get my baby brother to chill out. If you can, try to get it recorded and show it to your parents. If you don't have a camcorder/video recorder then try using a tape player or something so that they can at least hear how she acts when the parents aren't around.
2007-02-16 11:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Rayne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, she actually adores you and looks up to you! It sounds like she wants more of your attention. If you are the bigger sister, it is up to you to show her how to act. Spend some good time with her, gently letting her know the boundaries, and play with her, talk to her, do her hair...anything to make her feel more special. She might think of you as a hero...act like one back!
2007-02-16 11:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by altes_jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to do something with her she is only doing these things to get your ATTENTION...besides you don't hate her you just hate her BEHAVIOR...next time something happens make sure it happens IN FRONT of your parents so they can see what you are talking about.
2007-02-16 11:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋