Ok so first of all we are bothin 7th grade, we have 3 periods together if you count lunch. I sent him a candy-gram, it is this card that my school was selling, to him on V-day. He has flirted with me since half way through 2nd quarter. He looks at my, makes fun of me in a nice way, and he likes to annoy me. Anyways so he never told me that he resived the card or talked to me about it or anything. On Monday durring 7th period he passed the class i was in (he knows what class i have 7th period) and i think for a second he stoped in the doorway. The whole time he was looking straight at me. Today on my way to my 7th period I saw him in the hallway. He was walking by himself, I was with my friend. He was looking directly at me. But the thing is, before I gave him that card he talked to me durring lunch a fue times a week, but he has not talked to me at lunch since I gave hime the card. Please explain his actions. And help me! Please!
2007-02-16 11:08:24 · 11 answers · asked by GurlOnTheRoad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-16 11:08:56 · update #1
The card said "Happy V-day" I added to that "Your Cool! Never Change!"
2007-02-16 11:34:43 · update #2
I signed the card with my name so he should know that I sent it.
2007-02-18 13:34:44 · update #3
Maybe you should ask him why he is not talking to you. I don't think he doesn't like you what I think is he is starting to feel nervous around you. You have indicated to him with the card that you desire to be more than friends and he is probally feeling bashful, not really sure what to say to do. So he avoids you because he is scared. Guys act different when a girl becomes interested in them. Conversation isn't so easy, guys get nervous, they are afraid of rejection, at that age they don't know how to express their feelings. He probally is inexperienced with relationships, you may be the first girl who has shown interest in him. This is new to him he is scared he has no idea what to do.
I remember when I was a freshman in high school a girl I was friends with gave me a christmas present, I was so bashful. I completely avoided her, not because I didn't like her, but because I didn't know how to react and I was scared. Instead of pursing her I ran. I was afraid to start a relationship.
Don't scare him! Do everything to make him feel comfortable around you, if anything try to get him to joke around and tease you again. Ease his nervousness and anxiety and you will win him over. You should be the one to make a move though, I bet he is too scared to pursue you.
A guy doesn't stare at a girl unless he is interested in her! Maybe he is started to get a crush on you and can't handle it.
2007-02-16 11:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm proud of you for making a bold move. But now what's happened is he's intimidated by you. He still likes you but he's afraid of the power you exerted and he's hesitant. You need to follow up with a second bold move, but this time one that makes him respond. Confront him, but alone. Be funny. Say "If I had known giving you a Valentine was going to shut you up like this I would have done it sooner!" Laugh and smile at him. No matter what he says, say "So, can we still do lunch?" He'll say yes and you say "Ok, tomorrow then, it's a date!" Guys need to be led sometimes....so be the leader. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-16 19:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.
First of all, i bet you don't wanna hear this but, there is plenty of time to find someone. And in middle school guys are just stupid, they might be sweet and cute but when things REALLY matter is in high school. trust me, i dated this guy in the 8th grade whom i thought was really nice but noww we are not together becuz he left me because i changed to much. and now im in 11th grade and he is a HUGE asshole.
But. ill give you some addvice on your problem anyways.
He probly likes you but no one really knows.
So if i were you i would talk to him about who he likes and things.
But.
i think you should just wait and see how things play out.
If you need any more help just email me or im me.
2007-02-16 19:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by kapowww 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well does he know you sent it to him? i did the same thing for this guy i like on v-day and i didn't put my name on it. i had to text him to ask if he got it. one day you should ask him if he got it.
if he did get it, he might feel awkward. but things are only awkward if you make it awkward. try talking to him to see how he responds. if he was really cool, he'd tell you the truth instead of making you have to go crazy trying to figure out what's going on.
best of luck.
2007-02-16 19:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to him next lunchtime, maybe he wants you to talk to him for a change or something also try to get his number, let's hope for your sake he isn't gay or anything.
2007-02-16 19:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by DataBASE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is extremely simple,
The guy is scared, continue your relationship as friends and see what happens, >8)
2007-02-16 19:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anderwood 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is just a little embarrassed he will get over it you should go up to him and talk to him
2007-02-16 19:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im in the same grade as u. just talk to him! i have a boyfriend. ha hah ha .jkjkjkjkjkjkjlol
2007-02-16 19:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Niki V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's probably just a little embarrased and nervous. give him time. He will find a way.
2007-02-16 19:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Be Pretty =] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you one of those that won't stop talking?
2007-02-16 19:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by hevensmutantchld 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋