This guy lead me on for like a month he even called them dates and stuff and then one day we are just talking and he is talking about this girl and to make a quick story he has a crush on her!! How retarded is that!!! I really fell for this guy and he does this to me! I'm not crazy i know they were dates we went on like 7 or 8 of them..why would he do this to me??
2007-02-16 11:06:22 · 39 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok..sorry not all guys suck..just the ones i seem to get to like..and no he isn't young and neither am i he is 25 and i am 20.
2007-02-16 11:34:23 · update #1
cause hes an @$$ hole. but not all guys are just some.
2007-02-16 11:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~AmethystMoonBeams~*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you and this person seems very young and unfortunately, what he is doing is part and parcel of the growing experiences of males and you suffered the fall out from his playing around. Without a doubt this creep is missing a sensitivity chip and he had no right to treat you in such a disrespectful way. Some men thinks that it is fun to play around and not be serious because that is the thrill of "not getting caught" and being the one that is always in control even if that means shitting on someone. Take heart sweetie not all men are like that and some have learned the hard way that you can't treat people like that and think that there are no consequences to your actions. Trust me he will meet his match and he will then be sorry for the way he treated you and all the other women in his life. Then and only then will he smarten up. Usually by the time this happen (usually in the guys late 20s to early 30s), it will not matter to you what he is doing because you would have moved on and learned an important lesson that in relationships you must be honest with what you want from the beginning. I hope this helps hon...I wish you luck.
2007-02-16 11:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Almarie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First- I'm not a girl but i wanted to respond to your question. Nice guys/girls don't suck,but you can't satisfy everyone at all times since people tend to want to find something bad or not nice. And people like different things. You may have not found any girls that appreciate that because they may be looking for something else, but you've heard that there is someone for everyone. Try not relying on that niceness thing. besides its much harder to be consistently nice than mostly nice without a hint of pushover. This question itself shows that your not always going to be nice. Just act as yourself because its less about impression than about connection. being a tough guy may attract the wrong girls that will fool you. Just keep it up.
2016-03-28 23:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are that way. He's found someone new but should have broke it to you in a much different way. This will make you a much stronger person. Don't be so ready to fall for guys, use your head rather than your heart. You will date a number of guys, some nice & others jerks. Then there'll the the one special one. You will be able to open up to this one, share all of your thoughts and dreams with him. Get married & raise some little gals & jerks of your own. LOL Good Luck
2007-02-16 11:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by seblexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he just wanted to get your honest reaction to him having interest in another girl. Maybe he believes that you are not genuinely interested in him or you do not have feelings for him and this is his way ( however strange it may be) of finding out. It is either that or he is very uninformed about females feelings and insensitive. How old is he? Are you his first female dating partner? Sounds pretty young to me. Have a talk with him about his sudden change of interest and let him know that it is not nice to play games with other's feelings when it is more simple and honest to just ask a girl what he needs to know about her feelings for him before making comments about his crushes on someone else.
2007-02-16 11:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree guys suck.... but not all of them do. Sounds like he was playin the field and not looking for something more than just "dates." He was having his cake and eating too. Who knows who else he has a crush?? You can do so much better, go out and have fun and dont stress about that loser.
Good luck and best of wishes!!
2007-02-16 11:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beacause some guys just don't have any remorese or feelings about what they do............. They just think about themselves and what would make them feel good and what would make them feel better, I'm sorry this guy did this to you it's been done to me so i know how you feel but don't dwell on it you'll become bitter and mean like I am at times so just try to pick yourself up and move forward!!!
best of luck
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2007-02-16 11:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Guys Suck.
2007-02-16 11:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by BeRe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What he is doing is.....he liked you at first some now he is seeing it as just being casual and mostly just friends, so he is trying to let you know by telling you about this girl that he is into. Just act like it doesn't bother u.
OR he could just be trying to push your buttons and trying to see how much you like him by testing you. I would just act like I didn't care and then see what happens.
AND YES you are right, guys do suck!!
2007-02-16 11:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre just figuring out that GUYS SUCK??? get back on the web when you are older...
any way, heres my advice if you still want it...
this guy looks to you as one of his friends... you have a crush on him because of the attention he showed you, although, im sure youre quite popular and alot of people talk to you,... you should keep your guard up a little more, because, GUYS DO SUCK, but when you found the right one, youll know... take people for who they are and dont fall in the mezmerizing trance they sometimes put you in to gain from you or better themselves... im 43 and the people i work with are just like the kids you go to school with... people are always out for themselves... like i said, when its right youll know and a true friend will always be there, but until then, be cautious of people, there only trying to get ahead, and dont care who they step on to get there...
2007-02-16 11:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wasn't interested, but didn't have the courage to tell you. Yea, that sucks, but you're better off. There's someone out there better for you that will treat you like you want to be treated (and treat him). Don't hold a grudge against all because of one.
2007-02-16 11:12:06 · answer #11 · answered by Matt B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋