Me & My boyfriend got into an arguement on the 13th he got mad @ me because I called him selfish. He said since he is so selfish then he will spell v_day alone I over recated told him I couldnt deal wit his mess anymore. It was a break up i called him the next day to tell him i was going to bring him his gifts still since i had already spent the money on them. he told me that he didnt want anything from me & to keep the gifts. i went to his ma house that day anyway why he was at work. Well I put his gift in the middle of his bed with candy hearts all around it and two ballons on each side & a huge teddy bear the gifts he had for me were in the room including an engagement ring but i didnt touch them. I left he called me later said thank you & that he was going to the club. I was hurt that he didnt spend it with me. the next day he said how bad he felt the he didnt spend it with me and now he wasd mad at me again. make it short i am at his ma house now he hasnt spoke 1 word to me
2007-02-16 10:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by reses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So should i back off and leave him alone or try to work it out
2007-02-16 11:05:48 · update #1
He says he loves me i mean he got me an engagment so how can you someone an engagement ring and in two days lare he wont even look at me or speak to me. I dont have to be with him to be at his ma house this is like my second home so i was here when he got from work with his boy. he hugged and played with our son took a shower played his ps3 then left to go to the movies all with out even looking at me not even once. i had planned to stay the night but now i think i should go and just stop worrying about him??? I just feel like crying!
2007-02-16 11:19:28 · update #2
It honestly sounds like you both have alot of growing up and maturing to do before you even think about marrying anyone! Things should be talked about and worked out rationally. This is rather high school behavior.
2007-02-16 11:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Julie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from his house & don't call there. The ball is in his court. Wait to hear from him. It's normal for couples to have arguments & the best part is making up. If you two are going to go through this every time you have an argument/disagreement, then you shouldn't be together. If he's going to carry a grudge, then you need to find someone more mature.
2007-02-16 11:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what I have been given out of that. of direction you at the instant are not materialistic! yet as to being taken advantage of...i'm unsure in what sense you meant that, yet I rather think of there is a few of that working by means of here. And it could blow up on your face. notwithstanding, i'm no longer talking related to the hoop (which you have a suitable to dislike). For one concern, every time a toddler is in contact, no one ought to circulate in with somebody till they are plenty further alongside than you adult adult males. you have wide-unfold him a year and a one million/2, yet have been helping him and his son for 6 months of that factor? additionally, it struck me which you reported you have been in a rush to get married so so you may be stepmom to his son. even nevertheless you're coming from a good place, it rather is amazingly risky thinking. And if his mom is exhibiting warning signs of scuffling with custody, that is going double. each now and then human beings concentration on jewelry because of the fact it is much less complicated than specializing in what's significant, and that i think of it is occurring here. It definitely seems such as you adult adult males purely are not waiting yet - him financially, and likewise the subject concerns along with his son. Has your bf viewed an legal expert? it rather is barely one occasion, because of the fact living with a gf can impact custody judgements. So i might think of by means of all of this very intently, and confirm you want to marry a guy, no longer be stepmom to a toddler.
2016-12-17 17:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have time to get over his feelings he will come around there is no question in my mind if he bought you a engagement ring just stay away from him he will miss you and want to talk or come over.lol
2007-02-16 11:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space. If he loves you he will come back
2007-02-16 11:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So tickle him and get it out if him..
2007-02-16 11:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what's your question?
2007-02-16 11:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by BeRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋