I am so confused and hopeful right now. Last week this girlthat goes to my school asked to be added as a friend on myspace, and in her profile, it talks about finding her true love and things like that. So a few days we were talking and she asked me what i look for in a girl, well i told her and she replied: WOW thats exactly what i like in a guy. And, we talked on the phone for like an 11/2 hours that same night. Well, she told me that she thought i was a cool guy and she thought i was sweet. She called me last night after work at 10, and I was just wanting to know what this means... what should i be doing ? what should i be saying? does she like me>?
2007-02-16 10:52:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awww, hmmm ;) I think she might just like you. Talking for that long is a big accomplishment in my eyes; I hate talking on the phone and conversation never lasts that long unless I really like who I'm talking to and am interested in what they have to say. I would say she definitely likes you actually. Especially with the fact that she replied with that whole "WOW" repsponse--that's funny. I always think it's funny when a guy does that with me; the whole "oh yeah, me too/ same here" thing. It actually makes me smile and like them even more. I don't think you have to be doing anything different in particular because she seems to like you now exactly how you are. You could maybe give off some "vibes" or whatever that you're not totally closed off to a bf/gf relationship, so she knows that you're okay with her "pursuing" you. I know I wouldn't continue to flirt with a guy like that if he didn't express any further interest than just friends--because he might just like someone else....well, sorry for rambling up there, but I hope you get at least a little bit of insight from what I had to say.
Good luck and have a nice day!!!
2007-02-19 14:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she likes you. Maybe you and the girl should make a small step like going out to dinner and don't make any fast advances to her, you might scare her away. I hope everything works out for you.
You can even send her a rose over the Internet, by going into www.funcards.com That makes every girl happy to receive a rose.
I wish you the very best and good luck. It does sound like true love.
2007-02-16 11:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by margie j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she likes you. Your job now is to chill and just enjoy her company. You had to know already that she liked you when she asked to be added to your friend list.
You should be kind and interested in her and not fake. Also, don't worry that she's checking with her friends about everything, because what really matters to a girl is what she doesn't tell her friends.
2007-02-16 10:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by carmella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to locate a female buddy? you're able to be desperate. Anyhoo, only be your self. If she does not like that, then she's no longer top for you. Be your self guy!!! women love adult men who're continually their selves. sturdy success!!!!
2016-11-23 13:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that she really likes you, be yourself, be truthful to yourself and to the girl. Ask her questions to get to know her better, it could be the start of fireworks. finnally tell her how you feel about her and ask if she feels the same way it's best if you ask her these things online so that your voice doesn't shake. trust me it will if you choose the phone way. I wish you all the luck in the world. Good luck hopefully you'll get the girl in the end. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 11:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out for at least 1 month before asking her on a date, just to be sure. but according to what you're describing, it sounds like it's going pretty well =) but dont' be crushed if it doesn't end up in a relationship, being friends are great.
2007-02-16 10:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by zzhunibzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point she is finding out if you are compatible with her and wants a friendship first let it happen and down the road who knows what is going to happen lol.
2007-02-16 10:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say she is into you, it seems she likes that you have some things in common, i think you should keep talkin to her and ask her how she feels about you, and then when she replies, if its a good answer, i think you should go for it and ask her out
2007-02-16 10:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by ImLost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that she likes you. I think you should just ask her out to a nice dinner or something and she was she does.
2007-02-16 10:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out
2007-02-16 10:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋