When the boy and girl b-ball teams go to Charlotte for the tournament, i waz supposed to makeout with the guy that I like. We stopped liking each other and now we aren't gona makeout. It would have been my first kiss. I wana kiss someone b4 i go tohigh school next year. My friends and I were planning to find a guy that would be willing to just makeout with me. Plz don't think that i am a sslut, becuz i'm not really there yet. I just wana makeout for fun. I've heard that it waz so much fun. What is the best eay to get a guy hiped up so he will makeout with me? i don't want to sound to desperate but i want to sound cute. HOW???
2007-02-16 10:48:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow down hot pants.
2007-02-16 10:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, you don't need to makeout for fun. It's not even that important. Because if your planning on flaunting around saying you made--out with someone then you'd be stuck up and then people would think your sluty. Most people aren't gonna ask unless they are really interested and want to know about your relationships. I mean seriously whos gonna say out of the blue have you ever made out with someone and if you haven't your weird?? If your friends are your true friends they wouldn't be helping you make out with a guy and then just leave him because you want to act cool and makeout with someone before high school. Your first kiss should be special with someone you want to share it with and someone you really have feelings for. It shouldn't be something to show off. It's something special between you and a boy. I am not trying to be mean by writing this to you but it's true. Just wait for the right guy and don't rush because your going to end up getting hurt in the end and it won't be pretty. So think about it and I hope everything works out for the better. Good Luck, <3
2007-02-16 10:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I've been in this type of situation before. I wanted to be kiss someone before I got to high school too. My advice to you- Don't worry about making out with someone just because everyone else says it's fun. Things like that are only fun when it's with someone you really want to be with. By trying to find some random guy to make out with you disrespect yourself. I don't think you sound desperate, you just want some special attention- what kind of girl doesn't. Just wait, be yourself- while being cute at the same time, and some guy will approach you.Get to know him and then make out with him. It doesn't have to be before high school; there are a lot of girls your age who have not kissed any guys- just wait.
2007-02-16 11:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by sojah2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think the best plan would be to let it happen when it happens. it should be somethng special between the two ppl doing it. it does sound a lil desperate to try to force even a 'first kiss', and its not 'cute' to makeout wit someone just cause you want to, but i'm sure with all the pressure from your friends your gonna do what you want just to impress them. but think about this first, who is doing the kissing, you or your friends?
2007-02-16 10:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ken Kaniff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push it; if a boy wants to kiss you he will. Have you kids never played spin the bottle? Some innocent games like that is what I would suggest - not what you girls were planning.
2007-02-16 10:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by seblexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, wow, wow... dude, relax, there will be plenty of time for it later, you seem a tad on the desprerate side to me... you don't NEED to have a first kiss by the time you reach highschool... it is more fun to makeout with someone you love rather than lust over...
2007-02-16 10:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by hevensmutantchld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling, you can't just use a guy like this. if you can't find that special someone who deserves your kiss don't kiss at all. why do you need to kiss before high school? that's dumb. just kiss when you find the right guy. don't use a boy. NEVER.
2007-02-16 10:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want your first kiss with just some guy so you can say that you made out, you want it to be with someone that you like and he really likes you back, dont sell yourself short, make the guy work for it.
2007-02-16 11:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Amy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way would be to just go for it. guys like a girl that knows what she wants. where a nice top that shows your goodies and show him that pretty smile you have and in no time you will be making out with him.
2007-02-16 10:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to a house party. theres always a few guys that would help you out. be carefull about someone trying to take advantage of you,have a good friend look out for you,and make sure you are ok.
2007-02-16 10:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by i tell it like it is 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋