Huge problem...?

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for six years. Two months ago i lost it to him and I don't know if its him or me, but I can't seem to find any pleasure in it.I've never had an orgasm and my friends talk about sex like its the best thing ever, I can't say I agree. Any tips on how I can spice up what is plain in my sex life? ( I love my boyfriend and will never cheat I want him to be my one and only I just want to be satisfied)

Answer 1

First and most important have you told him this? If you can't talk about it with him you should have real concerns about your relationship. First thing you must talk about is it you or him or both, could he do something different like more foreplay etc. Then if it's you it would be a good idea to talk with your doctor. some sites like this one could help just do a search......
http://www.centerforfemalesexuality.com/sitemap.html

Answer 2

You never mentioned how old you are, but I am only asking because there could be an issue with the lack of experience, and he might not know what to do to make you confortable or help you enjoy yourself.

There is also something called Sexual Incompatibility- which older, experienced people know about. You know all those jokes about people just lying there.....well, that's just a simple one of many.

If you want to improve things with him, remember that SAFE practice makes perfect. Try different things, and things don't have to change overnight, but you'll get more confortable with your body, and with one another.

Best of luck. USE PROTECTION!

Answer 3

try diff. positions. like on your side, you on top, on your stomach. Different things. those all make it a little better. But then again i enjoy sex with my bf. Wish you luck though!!!!

Answer 4

maybe you can try differnt positions or somthing, that might help to make it more pleasurable