HE has someone eles and I have someone eles but it seem that everytime I try to forget about him my feelings pull him back in. It seems like no one can make me happy I have been comparing evertone to him for five years now.
2007-02-16 10:44:58 · 8 answers · asked by Babirownii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called love.......you're still in love with him.
2007-02-16 10:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by David J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he your first love? Or first real adult relationship? My first adult relationship was in college. We were together for five years and when it ended it was hard. We even went back and forth for another year and half after our break up because neither of us could totally let go. We knew in the end we weren't supposed to be together though. There is a love for each other because we went through a lot of growing up together, but it isn't the kind of love we should have for a lifetime. I did not completely forget him until I met and began to fall in love with my fiance.
Now I know I am with the man who is the real love of my life. I haven't looked back at all.
I did have relationships in between the ex and my fiance. Some were very good. With time our pull lessened, but never completely. Somehow he set the bar for the other relationships. You will get over yours in time as well. Seriously...it can take a while, but that right man will make you wonder why you took so long.
2007-02-16 10:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ahppening because of unresolved issues. The same thing happen to me and there were even times when i would call my new husband my ex partner name, without him even knowing.
The way to deal with this is forgiving your ex for what he might have done you, and try talking to him, (not to get back with him) but to heal your hurts and your wounds.
Being in a new realtionship is not going to help if you are masking the pain of what has been done.
You were in a sexually relationship with your ex and so have created a soul tie or bond with him.
You probably have not let go of the pass with him.
My advice would not to allow this to ruin what you have now.
2007-02-16 10:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by lou l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been doing the same thing with my ex, and she's lesbian now. I'm sorry, there's no real answer for it. You'll always love him, but that doesn't mean you can't love someone else too. You've just got to find a guy you can trust enough to let it. They're out there, they're just harder to find. In the mean time, don't waste your time with people you don't care about.
2007-02-16 10:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your new boyfriend must not be a LOOOZER! Try dating Bruno Sardine, Private Inbreastigator and you will forget about any other man!
2007-02-16 10:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sardine, Private Inbreastigator 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop it. You make yourself happy. You need to realize why you had broken up with him anyway. Over time it will go away.
2007-02-16 10:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should have a talk w/ ur ex & see how he feels about u...& take it 4rm there
2007-02-16 10:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Confussed Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him that is just way too long for that.
2007-02-16 10:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by vulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋