Movies and everyone tells me about love but when I watch movies it's different in real life and my bf and I don't act like they do in the movies at all and our love is more like a best friend thing but I don't know if that's how it's supposed to be. I mean we kiss all the time and stuff but normally it's almost like we're just best friends. Is that how it's supposed to be?????????????
2007-02-16 10:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Courtney♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There exists much confusion about what love really means.
I "love" chocolate cake and beagles, but I would never have sex with either of them.
The word love has become the pyrite of affection, replacing lust or desire in our common vernacular. Love is much deeper however, born of a togetherness and common bond, much more like a deep friendship. The only true forms of love I understand are love of parents for children and of families for their own blood.
If a person really loves you, he will exhibit the following qualities: longsuffering, patience, selflessness, humility, difficult to offend. Your friend knows all about you and likes you anyway. I think you'd have much better fortune in a relationship with him than with some other eye candy you may chance upon tomorrow.
2007-02-16 10:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That is how the relationship is suppose to be- he's not just a boy he's also your friend- your boy-friend. As time passes the relationship will get deeper but the most important thing that matters is that your happy in the relationship.
2007-02-16 10:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by sojah2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is going to be able to answer that completely for you. To me the person needs to complete you, make you want to be a better person, you have fun with them, you miss them when they are gone, you accept them for who they are and don't try to change them, love has not limits, its endless, it makes you do things that you would not do for anyone else. Don't confuse love with obsession, you need that person, or passion, its just a physical thing and it will end. Most people who love each other are good friends.
2007-02-16 10:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cause movies ARE fake. Love is like a partnership whose purpose is to make each other happy.
2007-02-16 10:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate the single the position they ask once you're jamaican. a guy requested me that and that i basically walked away and the completed angel p.c.. up strains aspect isn't for me. i fairly love the single my pal made up, "my lips harm, kiss it."
2016-12-04 06:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you mean that you guys are more like friends?
2007-02-16 10:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you is really giving time into the realationship so its not growing..
2007-02-16 10:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2007-02-16 10:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep .
2007-02-16 10:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by vulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋