ummmm, I don't like muscle......
2007-02-16 10:39:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I got one for yah. I am skinny. I have women end up being friends but still tell me they want someone bigger, because they want that strength and protection.
I have done work with many of these guys or gone on hikes and such as part of a group adventure. Many of these "big strong protective boyfriends"; can't keep up with me, get tired quickly, lift no more than I do, and poop out before I do.
But hey I'm just a skinny scrawney weakling. Women are nuts.
2007-02-16 10:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ben B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the girl mind there are different types of girls. The Girly ones, the Emo ones, the Tomboyish kind and ECT. So in the girl mind we have different opinions. Some might think guys look so hot with a big body, have strong shoulder muscles or even other physical properties in a human man body. You really don't know what a girl wants until you get to know her better. So I suggest that you should know that person by asking to go on a date but only as friends first. And then when you can determine what she likes ask her out. And some men ask me "When do you know until you can determine what kind of men she is into" ? Well check her facial expressions when she meets you ask her how questions that will make her laugh, smile, interested or even all three. Also make conversations that will also maker her smile, laugh, or interested. The more that you are social with a person the more she gets interested into you and might even like you for just the way you are, you with big shoulder muscles or even you as a big person.
2016-05-24 07:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what attracts girls is whatever it takes to make them feel safe. For some girls that translates to physical strength and they like guys with muscles, jocks, policemen, etc. For others muscles just don't do it. They like financial security to make them feel safe, or a person with whom they feel they can be emotionally secure.
2007-02-16 10:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy who is strong, and who will make me feel safe wrapped in his arms. But i hate body builders. No offense to anybody but i just think it is ugly. I like a guy who has muscle, especially in his chest because that is just hot. But yeah like i said not a body builder he has to have at least a little bit of fat on him.
2007-02-16 10:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like a guy to be strong but the guys with like the huge muscles are really gross.
2007-02-16 10:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like it but when guys get really big you find they spend so much time working out that they have no time for girls
2007-02-16 10:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i guy who's too ripped is a huge turn-off. but that's just me. most of my friends are more attracted to a guy's eyes than his muscles.
2007-02-16 10:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont like a lot of muscle, but i dont like a skeleton either. a nice combination of muscle and fat is good. i dont mean obese, but i like guys i can lay on and feel comfortable.
2007-02-16 10:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! Just looking at my boyfriend's muscles we he's flexing or working i can look at them and just feel like poncing him!!
2007-02-16 10:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by You//Wish//You//Were//Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really have an oppinion as long as they are cute and have a good personality
2007-02-16 10:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋