My best friend came to me for advice but I don't know how to help her. she is getting married in 3 days and just found out she's pregnant. Her fiance and her wanted a family but like 5 or 6 years from now and doesn't know how to tell all the family. She's also getting cold feet and is afraid of getting her hear broken. Her name is Jezebella
2007-02-16 10:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by purplepurp21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
her fiance is the dad she's 100% positive
2007-02-16 10:34:14 · update #1
Tell her to be honest. That's the best thing for her to do. he made the baby too. he might be shocked at first but he'll get over it, and they'll live happily ever after. :)
2007-02-16 10:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should definitely tell her husband-to-be that she is pregnant; however, I don't see why she would have to tell the family. If she's getting married in 3 days and she just found out, that could probably be passed of as a honeymoon pregnancy, and the family will never have to know she was pregnant first. Besides, it is not any of their business. As long as she and her husband sit down and figure things out, that's all who needs to know. And make sure she tells him first. Who wants to spring that on someone during the honeymoon??
2007-02-17 00:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by queenB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may be the one carrying the baby, but it's not her problem alone. She and her fiance need to discuss it at length and decide how to proceed. The family will be shocked at first, maybe even angry (perhaps they should tell after the wedding) but it won't be long before the static is smoothed over, and life will go on. Your friend may need to be reminded, in the throes of the families' reactions, that this is her & her fiance's life and therefore, their decision, not their families'.
2007-02-16 22:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to sit down and talk w/ him b4 telling the entire family. If they're not ready to start a family then maybe they aren't ready to get married. She needs to tell him like tonight b4 it gets too late. About the cold feet, everybody gets those. If she loves him she's doing the right thing
2007-02-16 18:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves her or he wouldn't be marring her. Be honest tell him the truth, it will hurt, but he needs to know and he needs to know this before they get married. Her cold feet is normal and happens to all of us before we tie the knot. He will not stop the wedding he will love her for being honest. Don't let her share this burden alone, they may not of planned things this early but everything happens in Gods eyes for a reason. Take care and encourage her to tell the truth be honest and just love her man. Tell her to enjoy her honeymoon and in the retirement years they will catch up on all the love they missed out on earlier, life is too short to be unhappy live, love and laugh. She needs to tell him and then decide to annouce it at the wedding together. Love each other and be happy. Take care Heather
2007-02-16 18:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has to be honest with the guy. She should not wait until she's married to dump it on the guy. She should not leave him either. I hope it goes alright for her. Good luck.
2007-02-16 18:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by brigetteofthewolves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything will work out they were getting married before she found out she was pregant. Tell her to folow her heart things will be ok
2007-02-16 18:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Araceli T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she pregnant with her fiance .. or who??!!! I hope her fiance is the father... she need tell him ...being pregnant is not bad things happened. she just need deal with it.
2007-02-16 18:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well she needs to tell him first and go from there.
2007-02-16 20:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋