sent him with my number in it for him to call me because i found that his sister had died and his finance had to have opened it and called my cell phone number leaving a message of thank me for the card tell me that she was his finace. So we i saw him today i thought i would mention it to him and he acted surprised and explained what happened and how learned of it and he laughed like he was crazy ,about the whole thing and said nothing and was smiling and told me he would see me later. Well, did i do the right thing or what? It sound like to me that the girl has engaged herself to him and he not to her i'm i crazy? Do the math.
2007-02-16 10:16:27 · 9 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my thing is why didn't the girl deal with her boyfriend instead of calling me and he has not said one thing about contacting him as for it being a problem. I'm not the problem she needs to deal with him on a one on one basis and not put me in the middle. i just was letting him know that i knew and understood how he was feeling after losing his sister i lost sister to domestic violence and he knew her that what friends do for each other when there is a crisis. It only tells me that there relationship is not secure and for some reason he brings my name up in the mix. i just wanted to congradulate him, i cann't help that there is something wrong with that situation and it sound like he's not to keen on it
2007-02-16 10:43:38 · update #1
This guy and i have know each other when we were teenagers and we did date off and on for over the course of 10 plus years we know each other well. Yes, i like him i will have a place in heart because he was my first love so i got to know him and his family and vice versa. The reason why we are not together is because he wanted to have sex and didn't and that is what split us up he failed to see the reasons why i didn't want to have sex i just was not ready, and he just could see it and that is why we are not together
2007-02-16 10:58:40 · update #2
my thing is when i congradulated him on the engagement he laughed wildly as if it was a big fat joke
2007-02-16 13:07:57 · update #3
OK you lost me a couple of times but I think I am with you.
It does sound like kind of a weird reaction from him. His new GF might just be putting on a show to block you from trying to take back her man. The real question is way do you care? Do you want him back?
2007-02-16 10:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rob S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't understand what you're saying (your spelling & grammar is horrible, sorry, and you've got serious run on sentences) much less your question ???? So I'm taking a guess here and saying that by his reaction (the laughing & not saying anything further about the matter - which I'm still unsure of because of the not quite understanding what you are saying), assuming you told him that his "fiance" called you after he read the card you sent him w/ your number, is that maybe they really aren't engaged, just dating, but she's trying to get the message across to you that he's taken, but my ??? is, why does this matter either way? Even if you were crazy, or he's crazy, or she's crazy ... how is the relevant in your life?
2007-02-16 10:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by mrs sexy pants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah your question is kinda mixed up in the end i didn't get the last part but i think accident happens lol u didn't do it on purpse right so no worries
2007-02-16 10:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let them be, i think his fiance is getting annoyed with you contacting him. and yes, he has engaged himself with her too.. he wouldnt get married to a girl who he doesnt want to be with. just let him go....
2007-02-16 10:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this matters why??
Who cares? You shouldn't.
2007-02-16 10:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Felicia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WTFH!? your question made absolutely NO SEnse.
2007-02-16 10:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did the write thing
2007-02-16 10:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i didnt follow tht...
did any of you other people??
2007-02-16 10:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by soccergrl4103 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
????????? sorry, I didn't understand what you meant.
2007-02-16 10:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him.. you like him... you like him
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maybe he likes you too?
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maybe she knows she is not the one?
......who knows?
2007-02-16 10:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋