I have been in a serious and loving relationship for 2 years. But cant help thinking/fantasising what it would be like to be with another man. I was a virgin when I got with my boyfriend and hadnt had a proper serious relationship before. I am still young and probally would loved to have met my boyfriend at a later stage in life, for some reason I feel like im missing out, on things young people do, I get loads of attention from other men, and am always thinking of how easy it would be to do things with them.
I have great sex with my partner, but think maybe I am becoming less attracted to him.
(Sorry if I havent described the situation very well, not very good at explaining things clearly!)
2007-02-16 10:03:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 21 by the way.
2007-02-16 10:18:56 · update #1
i get your point and thats normal you havn't had much experiece with other men so the fact that your getting attention leaves that fantasy in your head.. if you feel that way then be honest with your spouse..if he treatss you good its only right to be honest beacuse if you hurt him thats one less guy to treat a women right. if you feel you dont want to lose him well then sometimes its best to keep it to yourself..because he may just throw that in your face. your r becoming less attracted to him because your mind is traveling in a different direction that does not include him. good luck
2007-02-16 10:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by naterie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest if you love this guy, you would still stay with him. and yes you did miss put on alot of things... was with my ex for 6 years and i was still in high school when we met he was "my childhood sweetheart" or so I thought(long story) and when we broke up i learned so much from being single and dating. sounds like you might not want a serious relationship anymore and if thats case do him a favor and leave. oh and there is nothing wrong with fantazing about other men its when you do something with them while being in the relationship that makes it wrong. but again if you really loved him you would not or should not be thinking about those things. ask him if you can have sometime to think or take a break from each other.... go explore your options for awhile and you will know then if he is the right guy for you!
2007-02-16 10:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with him 2 years and have great sex what is the problem? If you feel you are missing out then you have to ask the question what do i need? is it too soon for me to settle down and if so how long do i need. Do you really love your boyfriend or are you just not in love with him. If on the other hand you feel that you just need some time apart you have to ask yourself will he wait? and if he does will he hate you for sleeping with another man? Is it really worth it in the end? Ask yourslef this have a heart to heart with the b/f and learn to understand yourself more. Take care Heather
2007-02-16 10:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are ready to see if the grass is really greener on the other side of the fence. I suspect you should break with your current boy friend sooner rather than later. The only danger is that you will find after all that you really love this guy but then it might be too late. Life is a gamble really
2007-02-16 10:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK if u love him u well stay with him but if u feel like u need to see what u are missing ot on then tell him u want to take some time away from him i hope this help u
2007-02-16 10:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Abilene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously are not experienced, every girl goes through this.
Every guy goes through this, when hes heartbroken over this "1" girl he met when he was young. There are about 5 mil or other man , your age, go date some other guys you are young. Call it a break with your bf, just for your own good to experience.
2007-02-16 10:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by sensetarget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when I got with my boyfriend over 1 and 1/2 years ago. He is my one and only. I NEVER fantasize about other men, so, I think you have some issues.
2007-02-16 10:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Princess♥ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your thinking of other men then the relationship your in is not meant to be, at least not right now. When you get to the point where you can't think of anyone else but the one you are with, THEN you are ready.
2007-02-16 10:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by rozzell j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are headed for the end of a relationship. if u don't do the things in life that u want to do b4 u settle down. then u will be unhappy the rest of your life and think about the way thing could have been. don't do that to yourself. do what u want and then settle down. if u don't then you will never be happy!
2007-02-16 10:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your not the committed type, or someone who regrets the unknown, you see when you wonder about things it causes you to realize the "what could be's" who knows if you stick with him you might have the best life imaginable, and who knows you may never find anyone as good as he is in bed, you see that's the great thing about life it keeps you guessing. Good luck.
2007-02-16 10:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋