Why don't ladies like bigboys?

Question

I'm a big guy but I can't get no love whats up with that? Alot of girls just look at me and turn there head befor they could get to know me. After they get to know me they love me and tell me all the time " I wish i could find a guy like you" but they allways think of me as there best friend, and then they go out with ******'s. Are all girl's just shalow or what. ladies tell me somethin PLEASE?? :)

Answer 1

I know what you mean!...i too am a big boy and was like that too.......i came to realize that the women that just look at your outer appearance are not really looking for a person to love but a trophy boyfriend...and those girls end -up being with a guy who does not appreciate what kind of woman he has....and that's just reality....most women now of days are just not interested in what kind of person you are, just what kind of things you give to her and what you drive......so i say to you that all the women that do not pay attention to you are fools and will know that for themselves after when they are by themselves all alone.........it is sad but true.......remember fat can be delt with,bur an ugly personality can not..............good luck!........

Answer 2

Ok, well...how big? If you are big and muscular...then that's ok. However, if you are big and obese that's a problem. There's nothing wrong with being big, but a healthy big. No one depending on the person wants to be with someone who has a different lifestyle than them. It's not being shallow, but what you prefer. I mean think about it. If you are into going to the gym, eating healthy, and doing activities then it would be hard to go out with someone who is unable to do those kinds of things. I'm not saying big people don't do that. However, in soceity everything is usually based on looks and first impressions. What kind of person do you see yourself with? Is it attainable? You can only go for ones that you are able to give them the same things. If you want to be with a trim, intelligent, and good looking person then you will have to have some of those qualities yourself. If you don't project confidence and self esteem then that is a turn off for most women. Men and women are looking for the same things, but I honestly think men are more shallow than women when it comes to looks. Women go for a** holes because they like the eXcitement of bad boys. To be into someone you have to be attracted to them..physically and mentally. Also, a lot has to do with chemsistry. Good luck!

Answer 3

Well, hate to say this but alot of girls like to make other girls jealous. But if you find a girl that's well,big-boned(i don't say fat)then they'll like you for who you are.Oh!and if you can prove to them that you can protect them then some will fall for you.(Go for the less snobby and popular ones and go for the more nicer and sensitive ones).You have to show them that you can be just as good as any other guy.

Answer 4

You're not walking by the right ladies. I love big guys! But be careful of the way you come off. Some guys that are big are typecast as the friend type, but you don't have to believe that.

Answer 5

Unfortunately too many people in today's society put more emphasis on the cover rather than the contents. Just be patient, there is someone out there for you and when you meet her, it'll be well worth it. Good luck.

Answer 6

i dotn think its a weight problem, just that u try to become friends with grls when really all u should do is try and go out iwth them. if u become friends with glrs, they are only gonna think of u as a friend, u have to aproach in a " i wannna go out with u" aditude,
but if u still think its a weight problem go on a diet, stop drinking soda, that makes u lose like five pounds real quick