Okay I really LiKED this guy cause he was nice and cute. But now I don't have the same feelings for him. To me were just friends. Yesterday he asked me out and I wasn't sure but my friend told me to give him a chance because he really like me and he's nice to me. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I think that I feel weird being his girlfriend and I liked us better as friends. But I don't want to break up with him and find out I might like him. So what should I do?? I am just confused!
2007-02-16 09:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ha, that's kinda funny because my best mate is going through the exact same thing. i told her to just tell him the truth now, otherwise it's just going to hurt him even more in the long run when he gets too attached to her. so...maybe you should try to do the same? if you two are good friends, then hopefully he'll understand! good luck!
2007-02-16 09:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Archie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whether you like him or not, there is no point in you being with a man who prefers men. He may claim to like you and even act so, but in reality he is not interested, unless he, himself, is confused to his own sexuality. If this is the case, you could give it a shot and see what develops. Otherwise you may end up sharing your boyfriend with his male friends and you will find yourself very much alone in this relationship. Think about it.
2007-02-16 17:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It shows. Your question is confusing too. If you don't want to date him because you're not interested, just say so. But you don't get to have your cake and eat it too. If you like him, then date him.
Is he gay? If so, why is he interested in you? Or is he bi? You should ask to be sure.
2007-02-16 17:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well, if yall were good friends before that means yall trust eachother right.?
i think you should just talk to him and tell him that you like being friends better then b/f and g/f and that its just weird.
i hope it all turns out great. =]
2007-02-16 17:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So what's with the rude subject line? *shakes head*
If you aren't interested in dating this guy, then just tell him (nicely, NOT like in your subject line). Don't date someone you aren't interested in...you'd be wasting his time and yours.
2007-02-16 17:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ive been in your situation........... Do whatever you want if you don't like him like that then just tell him that you dont like him but you wanna be his friend tell him its nothing more than that.....but if you wanna go out with him go out with him
2007-02-16 17:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by *Madison 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm confused too...
YOUR boyfriends gay?
WTF?
2007-02-16 17:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your confusing me .get your hesd straight
2007-02-16 17:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.................................................................................................................................................................WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????????!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 17:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋