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im sorta seeing this guy not in a boyfriend, girlfriend thing just some fun but my mates say he talks about me behind my back. Ive just discoverd i like him more than just fun but i dont know how he fells about me what do i do????? Help me please!!!!!!!!

2007-02-16 09:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by Halloween Child !!! 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

I'm sorry. I think you're being used. He's getting sex without the effort or hassle of a committed relationship, and he's immature enough to be boasting about it to his friends.

The chances of him falling for you at this point are slim to none. If he had any feelings for you he wouldn't have been talking about you behind your back in the first place, or at least not in the way that he has been. If he's happy to ruin your reputation to make himself look good, then he has no respect for you.

You could try bringing this to a head by asking him if he wants to be your boyfriend, but he is not good relationship material. The kindest way to view his behaviour is that he is not ready to settle down, and that's me being unreasonably nice. If I was nasty I would say that he is untrustworthy, not a gentleman, doesn't respect women... the list goes on.

I think you should cut your losses and move on. If you are determined to try to make things work as a proper relationship then you need to a) stop sleeping with him and b) have a serious conversation with him right away.

And don't let him mess you around. You know how boyfriends/girlfriends act - they don't keep things secret or "take things slowly". If he won't walk down the street holding your hand, if you have to keep your relationship secret from anyone for any reason, if he doesn't want to spend time just hanging out with you, then forget it.

2007-02-19 17:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Snakey B 4 · 0 0

Approach him about this, ask him if he has been saying things behind yr back, if you really like him then its worth a go , if he does turn out to be a waste of time there are plenty more fish in the sea

2007-02-16 09:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

nicely in case you're "sorta" seeing him and "date kinda" issues, possibly he sees no element in asking you out as he feels he's already in a date.The question for you is, what do you have in concepts once you assert you like him to invite you out , considering the fact which you already relationship implicitly!additionally what's your historic previous jointly as that have relevance to fixing your quandary!

2016-11-23 13:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by mcraney 4 · 0 0

tell him how you feel. Sometimes guys like a girl who will make the first move. If hes freaked back off for a bit. He'll know how you feel. he can make up his own mind.

2007-02-16 09:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by R,, 3 · 0 0

I agree very much with the first person`s answer. Find out what he`s saying and do somethingb about it.

2007-02-22 08:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by lilpollyfinders 2 · 0 0

what does he say about you behind your back? good stuff or bad? if he only says good things about you, then he obviously likes you in which case talk to him.

2007-02-16 09:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by ATP 3 · 0 0

have to know what he's been saying behind your back. good, continue what you have and maybe there's something there for you. bad, girl, then maybe he's just fooling around.

2007-02-22 20:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by President Of D' Clan 2 · 0 0

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