we've been going out for a while after a few weeks he said he loved me i said i loved him to but that was only so he didn't feel bad or embarressed, now i feel like i really do love him. Should i tell him i was lying before when i said i loved him and tell him i do now or would that just complicate things??
2007-02-16 09:14:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and tell him
2007-02-16 09:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't start a relationship by lying. You should tell him that u lie before but now u do. Things will get really complicated if u don't. If he doesn't like that then too bad because it is important to tell the truth. If he likes u, he will understand.
2007-02-16 09:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alyson B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that too much information can be disturbing, and he does not need to know what you did. It would definitely complicate things. But for future references, do not say something you do not mean or cannot back up. Speak from your heart. My husband told me that he loved me before I knew that I was in love with him, so I simply told him 'thank you'. It still worked. Be true to your feelings and go from there.
2007-02-16 09:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really just complicate things. But it is good that now you actually do love him. Just say it with more feeling next time. ♥
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2007-02-16 09:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by faye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
♥ Hun, I did the exact same thing one time! We ended up together for a long time, so it worked out. When he first told me, my reaction was just to say it back. I grew into the feeling, just like you have. Don't mention it to him...just know that you had the best intentions when you said it. Congrats to your happiness!
2007-02-16 09:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by says ME. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him now fine why say anything you love him he love you isn't that what the both of you want. tell him you did not love him then but you do now y should he believe you. please enjoy what you have do not cause trouble where there is no need
2007-02-16 09:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by whyte reign 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the past, do not worry about the future, live in the present and enjoy the love.
2007-02-16 09:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything, it might hurt his feelings and cause a fight. It's good that you love him now though.
2007-02-16 09:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by brigetteofthewolves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him... leave it at that. don't tell him anything other than you love him. if/when you've been married to him for 35 years, maybe you can tell him, but for now just leave it alone.
2007-02-16 09:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by sonata06870 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't he'll understand. u love him NOW anyway, and yes it would complicate things
2007-02-16 09:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋