How do I tell my female friend that i have deep feelings for her?

Question

i am a guyshe and I we have been friends for almost 2 andhalf years we r both virgins but iwant her to b my first she does't know i like her this way.at the same thing i don't the friendship we already have. what should i do?

i don't want to ruin the relationship we already have

Answer 1

Let your feelings show. if you're hanging out, and you're suddenly struck with how beautiful she is, dont hide the worshipping look in your eyes or the way your heartbeat sped up and stuff like that.

She'll notice, then you can go from there.

Answer 2

well, first off, i think you're looking at it wrong by saying you want her to be your first. that seems like it says "after she is my first then my mission is accomplished" i'm sure you don't mean it in this way but maybe you should really decide whether you want to be with her and be willing to make that commitment to her every day. if you decide this is the case just tell her how you feel. straight up...leave nothing out. by doing this you will get your answer. if it's "yes" then congrats. but if it's "no" then at least you know and can move on. it's also possible that you two just might need more time to figure out if you're right for each other. good luck.