I am calling her at the hospital and don't know what to say. Please help... Thanks!
2007-02-16 09:01:56 · 18 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you love your sister in law, tell her that you love her, and nothing reamins the same forever. Whatever she is going through it will pass.
There is a lot of people who need her, and trying to kill hereself is not the answer.
God loves her.
I tried to kill myself when i was 14years old, i am now 37 and have 3 lovely children. Life has is up and downs, but you know what, I have a purpose, that is why we are on earth.
God Bless
2007-02-16 09:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by lou l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly i'd be saying look if your going to put this family through hell for your own selfish benifit then at least follow your attempts through.
this maybe harsh but from personal experiance people who attempt suicide and don't actually die are looking for help. there is obviously something in her life she feels she cannot escape from and that death or attempting it to get attention is her way of alerting the people she loves to her plight.
i'm very sorry for your sisters situation but i am a survivour of someone who took their own life and i can tell you now and please let her know to that it's the most selfish thing a human can do, it leaves the family and loved ones with no answers and alot of guilt. so the person who commited the act is free from pain but they leave a lifetime of it behind
2007-02-16 09:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by wild_witchy_one 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her she is loved and supported. Most people who attempt to commit suicide are depressed and need help and support. Let her know that there are people who are there for her.
2007-02-16 09:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kaybee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'how are you feeling right now?' 'is there anything you want to talk about, I'm here for you if you do, can I come visit so we can talk'. But if you are only calling out of consideration not to really get involved than a simple 'what can I do to help' will suffice. Good luck
2007-02-16 09:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you will always be there for her and you love her. Ask her if she wants to talk about what's been going on. If she does sit and talk to her. Don't talk while she's talking just sit and listen. Ask if there's anything that you can do to help her out. Let her know that if anything did happen to her that she would be greatly missed.
2007-02-16 10:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you love her and you are there for her if she wants to talk. In cases like this most times its best to listen instead of talk. If she doesn't want to discuss it right now just try to keep her up to date on things that are going on with friends and family. And continually let her know how much she means to you.
2007-02-16 09:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deliver her to military boot camp or a psychological hospital? the two one in all that looks like something between insane and desiring-her-to-die. enable's line up the info: the lady is incredibly lots a toddler. in basic terms entered puberty. tried to dedicate suicide utilising pills. become sent living house from hospital after 3 days. appearing out. properly, you replied each and every question different than one: Why? there is have been given to be a reason, you already know? opposite to extensive-unfold concept, youngsters do no longer attempt to kill themselves out of boredom. consult together with her, or discover somebody she trusts sufficient to speak to. Be truthful together with her, do no longer communicate approximately what to do in the back of her decrease back, by using fact, no count number what you do, she would be able to discover out and be the two livid or devastated. Does she have issues in school? Is it too confusing for her? Is she crushing on a boy? Is she hiding something way extra effective than that from you/something of the family contributors? Does she harm herself? Does she extremely sleep at night? Or does she CRY herself to sleep? you're able to discover out what's incorrect together with her, in case you prefer to restoration it, no longer in easy terms deliver her away like some f**king undesirable kit! I admit, the belief of her passing it slow with you, far off from her family contributors, could perform a little solid, yet, such as you assert, she might additionally cope with it like a trip. and confident, holidays are superb and stuff, yet in the tip you return decrease back to all your issues. So I advise to you: Be supportive. communicate, enable her communicate. tell her she's substantial to you, that she concerns, which you adore her, which you extremely desire her to be extra advantageous, and discover out WHY THE HECK a 13 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous woman thinks it incredibly is a robust theory to swallow 2600mg of painkillers in one bypass!!!!! desire that helped.
2016-09-29 05:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by betker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are always there for her and that you love her. The support of people and the knowledge that someone really loves her will help her through it. Hope that helps and good luck!
2007-02-16 10:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by *Dancer 4 ever* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you love her and that you will be by her side while she is going through her rough period. By showing her support will let her know someone DOES care.
2007-02-16 10:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by krw65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can really say, ask if she wants to talk and just reassure her that you are there if she does want to. Tell her her family loves her and that you are all there for her.
2007-02-16 09:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋