Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 8 months and were really shy around eachother! we dont make out cuz no one will make the first move. we have made-out once but thats it. please help me. and we go to a different school. he says he loves me everyday. he told my mom and i his entire school knows what i look like (ina odd way) what do i do????
i mean i want to do more things with him. but i dont know how. im not good at making the first move! how do i! please help!???????
thanks
2007-02-16 08:59:09 · 19 answers · asked by Gabriella R. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were both 14 yrs
2007-02-16 09:08:48 · update #1
Just make the first move, he will love it. It's not like he's going to push you away or stop you. Maybe he doesn't want to push you further than you want to go, that's why he's not doing anything. You two need to sit down and talk about some things. You're dating, so you should get more comfortable communicating with each other. That will make things much better.
2007-02-16 09:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i know this could be difficukt for some ppl with every one telling them to "Just do it" i guess it would be that simple if u were really gutsy but in some case it takes to u could try stateing the problem to the other person i'm sure he might understand but if hes the type of guy that brags about his girl then i'm sure he won't mind u makeing the first move quick and simple a kiss now and then could lead up to more shyness isn't supposed to be a factor but it ends up being a problem in most situations in this case rideing out the wave might not be the best idea and as much as i hate to say it "Just do it" and if he complains then i guess ur with the wrong guy after dateing for 8 months nothing sure be an obsticle but sex ya know?
anyway i'm not gonna pretend to be and expert so just try it
2007-02-17 15:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl... I think all the responses are the same. He's not good to you. There's no question about it. Go hang out with your girl friends. Stop glooming and hyperventilating at the computer. It's not going to help. I know this totally sucks but almost everyone goes through some form of this sooner or later. 3 months is nothing. Really. Truth be told, you're not letting go of anything precious. Consider yourself single and go have fun with some friends.
2016-05-24 07:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if he is scared to make the first move that means he thinks you are great and it sound like you two are young so take it easy making out is sick if you dont do it perfect so have you two at least kissed at all? start with that and i promise you if you dont make the first move he will never do it
so this is what you do when you are talking look him in the eyes and then look at his lips and he will either pee his pants cus he is so nervous or kiss you if he doesnt kiss you but he looks like he wants to then look in his eyes and lean in a little and softly grab his chin with your hand and carefully pull him closer and then look in his eyes to see if he wants to and if he does then go for it babe it will be ok they always want a kiss and since he loves ou then i am sure he is dying to kiss you
oh and if you arent a master and french kissing then stay away from it till you are more comfy with each other k good luck girly
2007-02-16 09:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dating for 8 months. One of you needs to strap a set on and make a move. You have already made out right. Just jump on him, I am sure once you are "engaged" with each other kissing, licking, biting and drooling there will be no problem continuing.
2007-02-16 09:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Shmesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are going out then just go up and kiss him. Don't be so shy. I think maybe neither of you are really ready to do anything more because you sound young by your description of the situation.
If your only 14 then don't worry about it. The whole boyfriend girlfriend thing is really just a game at your age. It's just for people to say " I gotta girlfriend " or " ....boyfriend", you know? It's really just a title at your age.
2007-02-16 09:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
show him this open question and I bet the pair of you will get together, if he loves you like he says he does. Failing that be brave and make the first move on him. good luck
2007-02-16 09:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are going through believe me .. i've been through almost the same satuation with an old BF but one day i just closed my eyes and kissed him since then he became the one who makes the first move
2007-02-16 09:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by fo6a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem young maybe your not ready to be in a realtionship but if you feel you are take things slow and just talk to your boyfriend about how you feel it will bring you closer together he will probably feel the same way.
2007-02-16 09:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by jo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we would have to know more about the situation before we asses the situation. What most people are going to ask you before giving you any advice is how old you are?
2007-02-16 09:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by kaipo36 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋