Okay im dating this older guy he is 20 and i'm alittle worried about him cheating on me. this is why...: He told me that when we 1st started going together he said i had his cell phone cut off. But today i saw him texting and calling someone on his phone. Then he is kinda never home. He is starting not to call me at the time i ask. He calls me kinda late and we dont stay on the phone like we use too. Then when he says i will call you back he doesn't sometime. Then i caught him laying his head down on some girl's shoulder. i dont know if im reading a little too much into this or......i don't know. Cause i play with alot of guys but they are just friends. And he just looks at me when he sees me with my guy friends. And i look at him and turn my head cause i see him talking with other girls so..im going to talk with other guys. I dont know what to do....sometimes i just want to break up with him and forget about him but i can't. PLEASE HELP ME!!
2007-02-16 08:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by diamondwwediva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are both so young that you should be seeing other people. Don't get too serious yet. You should see other people. Tell him you don't want to be exclusive and he may just panic and decide you are the only one for him.
2007-02-16 08:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by time_ready_love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start practicing your wink and smile. When he's with the other girls and you make eye contact, just smile and give a wink. But, make sure you practice in a mirror on your smile, keep the smile straight and make the wink quick and short. He will quickly get the message and the call will come in within 24 hrs. or less.
2007-02-16 17:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tyranus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This don't seem like a relationship to me, seems to me he wants to explore and you is just on the side wondering where am I in this relationship with him, sit him down and talk to him and express your feelings with him, if you don't let him know how you feel then he will never know and he probably will continue doing what he is doing. He shouldn't be doing this kind of things when he suppose to be in an relationship.
2007-02-16 16:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not reading anything into this. hes not into you kiddo. hes lying to you all the time. so in fact you are seeing it happen right before your eyes. i dont know how much older he is than you but you need to be with someone else. he isnt the one.
2007-02-16 17:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun.... pretend he doesn't even exist. I had a bf who did that to me....
I just ignored him and went out and had a good time... ignored his calls, and everytime i saw him I played it cool...
Forget about him...there are thousands of better and more qualified men out there. screw him
you are still sooooooo young
2007-02-16 17:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by kujiiiro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it your being to jealous ... relax... if you cant handle it then break up with him ... but if he doesnt want to be with you and rather be with another girl he is not going to waste his time thats how all men are... so there is definately something to look foward to ... hes your man ... but just be a little sneaky and do some spying just in case!! ;)
2007-02-16 17:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by CRISTIE C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah hes cheating sorry
2007-02-16 16:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by richard e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many f*&^ing games!!!! Grow up already...BTW...he's older than you and he's only 20....maybe you should stick with the kids you're used to.
2007-02-16 17:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, ask him, not the rest of the world. if you want to do something about it, get off ur butt, and do something!!
2007-02-16 16:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by blue_eyed_brunette527 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him...sounds like hes over you hon. I'm sorry.
2007-02-16 16:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋