I'm 16 years old and all of my exes have been 3,4,5,6 years older than me. And the oldest guy I dated was 26. I don't even like olde rmen. I like people my own age but the guys my age barely pay attetion to me. They are always playing video games and playing basketball. I just act like a normal teen and I dress apportatie. Older men seem to be attracted to me for some odd reason. I tell my age all the time I never lie.
2007-02-16 08:36:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is because you are smarter and more mature than most guys your age.
2007-02-16 08:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Pardon? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many "exes" can a 16-year-old have???
It might be a good idea for you to take a break from men for a while. Instead, try spending time hanging out with friends. And any 26-year-old who approaches a 16-year-old has a major problem, so I'd steer clear of that situation.
2007-02-16 16:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Terri J 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's because your older that what you really are. I was that way when I was your age. It just shows that your alot more mature. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to an older guy--not old guy. Besides, girls mature much more faster than boys anyway--its a proven fact! It's a good thing, don't worry about it.
2007-02-16 16:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK 26 is way too old for a 16 year old. there is nothing wrong with dating older men but at least try and date people under 20 for now. older guys are more mature and have more money but....they also have more sexual experience and you should stay away b/c they will end up pressuring you into something you really shouldn't be doing right now.
2007-02-16 16:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by pinklux925 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you know what....it kinda pisses me off to hear all these people saying "what is wrng with him" "he must have problems"....
I am 18 years old and when i was 15 i met te guy that i am with now and he was 23....we got together when i turned 16 knowing it was illegal....we talked to my parents and he is honestly a good guy. i matured a lot faster when i was young and so i think it made me more appealing for older guys....we are still together and its been 3 WONDERFUL years....so dont let people who dont understand tell u that its wrong...if it feels right then it must be and if u get a bad feeling then dump him....u can usually tell when a man is up to no good! so dont worry about age hun its just a number!!!! good luck and i hope i could help!
2007-02-16 16:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl, I think you are your own problem, try to keep to one guy and love him with all your heart.
You see, love know no age limit, If you are comfortable with an older guy, then try to love him very much, at least that's why he pays more attention to you, that's maturity you know.
As for the guys of your age, it's clear they know only little about relationships, so please don't give them the hard task of trying to be what they are not.
Which ever way you chose it, ensure you are happy with your decision. Good luck.
2007-02-16 16:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mozzyzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing you, I would say that you probably do not have a good relationship with your father. You are probably trying to find the love of older man that your father did not give you growing up. Essentially, these older men you are dating are bad replacements for the love of your father.
2007-02-16 16:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by binary sunset 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course an older man is going to be attracted to you, you are young and beautiful, what man don't want that, also some men like to date younger women because it makes them feel younger too, the same reason why women date younger men, anyway, You probably like the fact that they don't act immature and pay attention to you, also they don't dress like they have 4 other people in their clothing, because young men love to wear clothing that is 4 times there size and they look like they are wearing trash cans, I find that annoying and unattractive, but I believe you mostlikely go for the attitude
2007-02-16 16:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be dating at all. What do your parents think of this. Sounds to me like you are a bad girl. No one should be dating you, and if they are 18 and over that's a felony. You need to slow your posterior down before you get either yourself in trouble or one of the pitiful men you seem to attract. You know what men want and obviously you don't mind giving it to them.
2007-02-16 16:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by ARM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I was 19 I dated a 33 yeasr old... man can we say stupid head?!.. anywho.. it was bad, he was all "pee-pee" happy 24/7 and I got raped in the end of it all. If a guy is more then 7 years older then you becarful, cause mostlikly all they want is sex, and not a meaningful relationship...
Next time show them your ID, cause it's aginst the law to have sex with a minor, and even if you don't want to press charges on the guy, you're PARENTS still have that leagal right to press charges...
2007-02-16 16:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I feel you completely, I'm 16 and the same thing is kind of true with me. It means you're smart and mature and intelligent, it takes an older man to appreciate that.
2007-02-16 16:39:50 · answer #11 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋