i was over at my guy friend's house watching tv, nothing out of the ordinary. then out of nowhere, he leans over and kisses me. i guess i do like him, i don't know, i've never given it much thought. but now i don't know what to do. i don't want things to be awkward between us. advice?
2007-02-16 08:35:26 · 21 answers · asked by obvious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let this situation progress unless you are absolutely sure that you do like him. If it make you feel uncomfortable, try not to place yourself in a similar situation alone with him. Take some time with it.
2007-02-16 08:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by mcpouches 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think i know what you mean by awkward, he was one of your good friends. HA! this could be an absolutely wonderful thing did you get the tingles? the warm fuzzy feeling on the inside, i agree with one of the answers you should kiss him back you never know what is going to happen, of course it's going to be a little awkward for the moment since that kiss came outta no where but you are still thinking about it are you not? This is easy, that awkwardness will go away, be mature if your going to start a relationship since he was your friend from the beginning you didn't want to lose that. Even if the relationship doesn't work out you can at least try to stay yfriends, your in for a lot of fun, i wish you the best of luck take care.
2007-02-16 16:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what, things are going to be awkward until you make up your mind. Remember that he took a big risk in kissing you because now you know how he feels about your relationship, so he's waiting for you to tell him how you feel. If you're not sure about your feelings about him, go out on a date. You will be doing something that couples do so you will perceive him differently than you would when you are doing things that you do together as friends. See how you feel on the date..... that should be all you need to make your decision....
2007-02-16 16:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie 5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you've never given much thought weather you'd want to date him or not, well start thinking about it he obviously likes you, the question is how do you feel? if you like the idea of dating him then of coarse date him, but if not simply explain to him that "he's too good of a friend, you wouldn't want anything to get in the way of the friendship" this will let him down easy with minimal awkwardness
2007-02-16 16:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now... go wash your mouth out right this minute and never EVER go back to his house again!!.....LOL.
Seriously though, he did it because he likes you. Now you have to decide whether you like him or not then you'll know what to do after you've made that decision. And feel free to say "I like you but I don't want to have a relationship with you." Or "I like you too and I'm willing to try this out and see where it leads. I can't make any promises but if you're willing to do this on a trial basis then I'm cool with that."
good luck
2007-02-16 16:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. ask questions - answer his questions. maybe its time to think about it now that the horrid first kiss is out of the way. did you like it? would you do it again? once you figure that stuff out you can make a choice as to whether you'd like to maybe date him or decide to hang on to the friendship and not chance it ... good luck honey!
2007-02-16 16:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see what happens. I wouldn't freak out about it. If he is interested in you, it will happen again. If you don't want it to then you need to tell him that you don't want to become romantically involved with him. If you are not opposed to romantic involvement with him, just let things happen naturally. I would just act like nothing happened between you and see what happens.
2007-02-16 16:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...if you like him,and he apparently likes you...go out with him! It's the most obvious choice! I would think you two would have a very romantic and lovely relationship with the way he seems to be acting
2007-02-16 16:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything! This is how great relationships start. Be yourself, stay yourself, don't question it, and if you like him, then all more the better! Most men/women don't realize they like each other until something unexpected (like this) takes place.Things don't have to be awkward =)
2007-02-16 16:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you like the kiss? Maybe you should kiss him back and see how it feels? If you like it, do it some more. That is how romance starts. â¥â¥â¥ â¥â¥â¥ â¥â¥â¥
2007-02-16 16:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋