How come i cant?

Question

get my gf preg we dont use condoms nore birth control help i want a baby and so does she were 18 y is this

im tired of dumbasses sayin stupid ****** s h i t its my life get out of here with the bull u retards just cause ur bums and cant raise a kid dont tell me how to live my life got it

Answer 1

consider it a blessing from a merciful God.

You are both way, way, way, way, too young to be having kids.

Go to and finish college first. Why do you want to doom yourself and any of your kids to a life of poverty and frustration?

Answer 2

I am not going to be like everyone else in here telling you to wait and that you're too young to have a baby, because it's not my place nor do I have much room to talk. (19 years old, and 5 months pregnant). What I would suggest is going to a doctor and have fertility tests ran, just to make sure there's no medical reason that you two haven't been able to conceive. Also, start monitoring her ovulation. Determine when would be the best time to have sex, and what positions would work best. You can find a lot of the information that you need on the net. Just run a few google searches and see what you can find. I hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 3

You want a baby eh? I have you considered the responsiblity it takes to raise a child? The money youll need? The patience? The late nights and early mornings? The lack of time for yourself and each other? I doubt youve even considered any of this. A child isnt a doll to dress up and play with, its a living breathing human that needs tender care not parents who think it would be fun to play house.

Answer 4

honestly (not to sound religious) but maybe its not time yet.maybe GOD isnt ready for that. but this is something to not rush into i am 24 and i am pregnant with 3 months left b4 i graduate from college and its tough already. Also maybe you shoul get tested to see if it could be low sperm count (like if u smoke we*d). by the sound of ur additinal notes by ur tone u are not even ready for constructive critisizm let alone a baby. THINK ABOUT IT

Answer 5

if you are only 18, I would wait and make sure that this is really what you want in your life right now and make sure that she is who you would want to be the mother of your child. If you decide that this is what you want, then you should go to a Dr. to see if there are fertility problems with her or maybe there is something wrong with you. It could be low sperm count or something. Either way there are things that they can do to help.

Answer 6

Sorry, but this question tells me you are way too immature to even consider becoming a father. Did you know that it costs $20,000 starting with pre-natal care until the first birthday and at least $10,000 each additonal year?

Do you realize that you can't possibly provide a good home for an innocent baby?

Answer 7

Maybe one of you is infertile, or you haven't given it enough time. I don't wanna sound all preachery but are you sure you want kids so early? If you do and are sure you could financially and physchologiaclly cope, good on you, and maybe get checked out by a doc?

Answer 8

dont listen to fxcking assholes. do what's going to make you happy... theres no way you can regret your child... whether your eighteen or thirty-five years old, you'll still have that love for your child like no other... and you won't regret your child if you really love it...if this is what you want and YOU know you can handle it and take care of it, don't worry about anything that other people have to say. they live their lives; you'll live yours, right? i hate when people treat younger people like their idiots just because they know what they want. :)

Answer 9

try not to worry about it...when you dont worry about it, it tends to happen

Answer 10

Find out when she ovulates, have sex a day after.