my parents are divorced and when i'm with my mom she often drags me to her friends house and it starts out find except for last night it was diferent cause i went to my dads house today and my mom kept telling me to go in the house and watch the kids and she'll give me 5 dollars. So i finally just walked away CRYING because it really hurts the fact that i dont get to see her for another 5 days and i oly got to see her for 2 days before that 5 days and the fist day she had a migrane so we couldnt do anything and the next day we were gonna go walking but then she had a headache supasably then we went to her friends house.So long story short...
my mom drags me to her friends house then she bribes me to watch the kids, she drinks, lets me down, and doesnt spend time with me when i dont get to see her for 5 days. And i was molested by her fiance and i went to counseling wich didnt help and the only person who has helped is my sister because she has gone throught the same thing.advice!
2007-02-16 08:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by I love you :) I think :/ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell a school counselor so they can get you the proper help, your mother is emotionally abusing you and you need to get out of this situation. She obviously puts herself first even if it means you get molested by one of her boyfriends. She's not going to change by you talking to her, you need to get serious help from other adults who's job it is to help kids like yourself. Tell the counselor or a teacher you trust, keep talking until you find someone who believes you and will help. Your mom's let you down,don't let yourself down as well.
2007-02-16 08:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good answer Janie M. talk with an adult you trust. Tell that person everything about how your life is and what you want. Your mothers drinking sounds like a problem for the both of you and probably others too. As for her fiance, stay clear of that guy. Don't be where he is. If I were you I'd press charges, this is a major crime that he
has commited. Please tell someone, other then family.
2007-02-16 16:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by *sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice tell your mom that you miss her and how you feel. She is not a mind reader and may be going thru alot of things herself, so you have got to talk to her and tell her exactly what you said here. And when you are with her let her know you love her and miss her and that you care. She may feel bad about what happened to you and may be beating herself up about it. She may be drinking to numb herself to everything that has happened. Try to continue talking to the counselor if possible, and maybe see if they could get your mom to come also. Continue talking to your sister and lean on her for support, you are lucky to have a sister like that. All the best.
2007-02-16 16:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your sister in a position where she can take u in or is it a more healthy environment at your fathers if so go and stay there. U need to get away from your mothers place before the molestation turns into rape.
2007-02-16 17:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to your mum and tell her you want to spend time with her. im guessing that she bribes you to look after her friends kids??? thats not really fair on you. you havnt mentioned how old you are but i think by the sounds of it you just want your mum to show you some love. im sorry what your mums fiance did and i hope shes not with him now as she shouldstand by you. if talking to your mum doesnt work you could always talk to your dad,good luck.xx
2007-02-16 16:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried tell you dad your concerns...maybe he should take your mom to court for full custody of you and any other siblings that you have because this is not normal...hope this helps and good luck
2007-02-16 19:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with your sister and talk to an adult you trust
2007-02-16 16:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i need help 2!!
2007-02-16 16:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by Angelika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋