Sometimes I catch him staring at me during lunch and he's starting to drink Bid Red like me too. (Dumb, I know.) But the problem is, he never talks to me. He just ignores me and basically just pretends like I don't exist. Is he acting this way because he doesn't know how to act or is he repulsed by me?
2007-02-16 07:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you haven't learned it by now, guys are just weird. Well, at least they are to us woman. Have you ever done something in the past to make him think that you don't like him? Maybe he wants to act on his feelings, but he's not because you might have done something to set him off. My advice is, go talk to him. Or you can just start saying hi to him everyday and he'll get the picture that you don't hate him. Good luck!
2007-02-18 06:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by pinkpanthersgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on dear... don't say he ignores you. He is pretending.
Next time go and sit next to him if he is alone during lunch. Then just talk normal things... No not about politics or weather forecast... but slightly personal. Then while talking, move your fingers through your hair to let him know that you are interested in him. Girls don't move fingers through the hair with total strangers... and we guys know that!!
Then in a few days you can invite him for a cup of coffee at some restaurant near by. No don't invite him to your house immediately... let it be a neutral territory. If he forces that he will pay the bill... let him pay. This will boost his self-esteem.
Once all thses things are over you won't need me to suggest you anything further!!
By the way, men too like to be praised... praise him for his voice, confidence level, looks, sharpness, intelligence etc. Don't praise him for his clothes... but you can tell him, "This color suits you or you look great in such and such dress."
All the best!!
2007-02-16 08:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old is this guy?No it isnt that he is repulsed by you.Its either he doesnt know what to say or how to act or maybe he just doesnt think your into him. Maybe you should try to talk to him sometime.Ask him whats up?? I mean ask him why he keeps staring at you is there something on his mind that he wants to say?? Good Luck
2007-02-16 08:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tbrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but he may be shy
Smile when you catch him looking at you
are you a very popular girl might he be scared to make the first move. You might want to wave at him when you catch him looking at you or you might just like to look back
have fun and see what happens.
2007-02-16 08:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean because i have the same story. my advise is to find out....because he might like you...... and just shy...which as i can see so far everyone else is saying...but you need to find out other than tempting yourself to a secret crush
2007-02-16 08:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by wish i could have my navy man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be stund by your beauty and is afraid of rejection...YOU...should go talk to him and see if he lightens up a bit ...if you're interested
2007-02-16 08:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by sporty_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u and is shy
2007-02-16 08:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Julia N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋