After 2 years we are breaking up.
My (ex) partner wants me to move out.
The last drop was that one of the lib dems rang and I told her to call his mobile and not home number as I use this number for my business and I can't keep the line busy. I get incoming calls as I am an interpreter.
OK. I live in his house but I am sharing bills.
He is 55, never been married and gets very brutal if I do not comply with rules in the house, such as washing even a cup that I leave in the kitchen.
He doesn't like either if I try to find out anything about him, such as where he's been, with whom, etc.... although I know he can't be sexually unfaithful.
Is this a macho man?
2007-02-16 07:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me, you can do better!
Out there somewhere is a decent man who will appreciate someone like you who is obviously an intelligent woman. This break up may be tough at the moment but in due course you will look back fondly on your memories with this man & be glad you have moved on.
2007-02-16 08:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by ATP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tempting but please never again move in with a man unless you are married to him. As the years go bu it is a struggle to keep any relationship on an even keel but if you are both batting from the same corner you are in with a chance. Please realise that the reason couples don't marry is because they are not committed to staying together. If you need to share chores and bills, share with a friend. This man sounds about as affectionate as a verruca and as committed to you as the checkout girl in tesco's. Lose him.
2007-02-16 16:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by DIANNE M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both seem better suited to living alone. If it's his house you moved into, then it's time to move out. Go amicably and perhaps you'll get to take the phone number. But in any case, you're better getting a 0845 number which can be ported to anywhere in the country.
2007-02-16 15:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't think of my answer as bad, but if it was me I'd be well rid, no-one would treat me like shite. My ex husband told me he didn't love me anymore, and that did it for me, I was out of the door. Sorry this is happening to you, and you probably don't wish to hear my answer, but I would'nt stay with a brutal man, and you are better than to stay there, you can always move your business with you. Good luck
2007-02-16 16:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he sounds like a selfish pig. If he's breaking up with you because you asked a researcher to call his mobile you're probably better off without him. Just make sure you have somewhere to live lined up if he follows through on his threats.
2007-02-16 16:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Huh? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run like the wind and thank your lucky stars it's over. He gets 'very brutal'? He's secretive? If your alarm bells weren't ringing violently I'd take a long hard look at myself if I were you. It's not macho it's PSYCHO! Sheesh.
2007-02-16 15:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard know people to uk or every where and you say taht sharing is not bad things but problem is that some people make mind every things sharing good i am disagree that
if you do some things with love and caer and for other then that person feel so good and that the name of life and love
if you think its hard for you then try to look good person all are not same in this world
2007-02-16 16:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by muhammad y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come and stay with me sweetheart, you can leave as many cups in the kitchen as you like and throw your underwear all over the bedroom floor. ha ha, sorry, only joking.
i know its a serious matter, leave him he is no good for you.
macho man - no
arsehole - yes
2007-02-16 15:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by jardon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no this is not a macho man not sup prised he hasn't been married,if he gets brutal hes best on his own.
2007-02-16 16:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by wilma p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run far and run fast. Relationships are meant to be equal partnerships.
2007-02-16 15:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by cathyjast 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋