im twenty, and im straight (i have a boyfriend), but i sometimes get the desire to make out with a girl. not any particular girl. ive never actually done it. im secure enough with who i am to know that im not a lesbian, i just want to try it, you know, adventure. what does everyone think of this?
2007-02-16 07:37:38 · 23 answers · asked by Lips-of-an-angel 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If not to worry about, I'm 19yrs old and I'm not a lesbian but I've had the desire to mess with a girl also. I've went all the way a few times and it's the greatest cause a girl knows exactly what a girl wants. You should try it, just makes sure your boyfriend doesn't get invovled cause usually it ends up being a mess. Unless you trust him and yall are really in love then it shouldn't matter.
2007-02-16 07:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adventuring and trying new things is a natural part of sexuality. Being willing to try is a great way to keep a relationship strong and healthy. So no, I don't think your fantasy about kissing another woman is at all odd. It's a fantasy.
What you need to do is decide if you want to act on that fantasy, especially given that you're already in a relationship. You may find that you put it on the back burner until you're between relationships. Or your guy may be the sort that you can talk to about the fantasy, go out clubbing together one night, and you can hit on a female or two until you find your kiss.
2007-02-16 15:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead!! If you want to try girl on girl, just see if you can find a one-night stand. If you don’t mind your boyfriend being into the game (a threesome), then you need to look for someone who wants to have a threesome with you guys.
For how you said it, I think you can be into the bi-curious category if there is a name for it. My wife has expressed the same thing; she actually pictured and described the type of girl she would have a threesome with. But lately she hasn’t been thinking much about it, and if I ask her, she says not for the time being. LOL, I should have found a girl quick for us!
But seriously, if you are curious, you need to find out. We only live once. The only thing is that if you don’t want your boyfriend to be there, he is probably going to want the threesome, and it happens that is not what he wants, but what you want. Best thing is to be hones, if you think he will be fine with it, talk to him about it. If not, then maybe hide it for a while. I don’t recommend it, but sometimes it would be better if there is no harm.
Good luck. Hope you find someone to have some fun with!
PS: hey, maybe my wife could consider you… hehe… You never know.
2007-02-16 15:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I used to work a strip club and we had to do some wild things. I have always just wanted to experience that with another woman even before I started working there. Well one time me and another stripper went to do a private with one another (she was experienced) and it was the best thing I have ever done. She just made me feel sooo good. And yes she was clean and stuff and me and her was really cool with each other. It sucks now cuz I done work there anymore and I wanna do it again soo bad. I also have a boyfriend and I was not with him the time this happened so I never told him. But it was amazing. I wanna go back and find her and do it again. I recommend it to you so much. You will love it. You may feel weird at first but trust me you will get used to it. Let me know if you wanna know anything else. just email me ok.
2007-02-16 16:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by elementis02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called experimenting. You are probably going through a phase where you are trying to learn more about yourself. Or you might even be a little bored with your current relationship, and this seems like the best thing, in your mind, to maybe spice things up a little bit, without feeling like you are cheating.
I would suggest you do, if you decide to act on this feeling, discuss this first with your boyfriend, and see how he feels. He might allow this. Alot of men don't mind their girlfriend kissing another girl, but as long as they get to watch.
2007-02-16 15:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by only_one_vince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a little experiment here and there. Now a days people experiment on the opposite sex just because its curiousity. Especially in straight girls being curious in another girl. I had my curiousity and and accomplished it and im still the same 100% straigh. I say go for it a kiss is just a kiss...Good Luck!!!
2007-02-16 15:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by NENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I would never wanna be in an actual relationship with a girl but theres nothin wrong with bein curious about bein physical with one. ive been curious about what it would be like and i know for a fact that im straight. lol. the way i see it is, you only live once... so just go for it
2007-02-16 15:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is natural. im 18 never kissed a girl but think of it sometimes as something that i might want to try. but i know im not gay either. im totally straight. i just want to see what its like and what the difference is between kissing a girl and a guy. i think its perfectly natural.
2007-02-16 15:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by xxbrandy87xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Well, I had the same curiosity and I too had a b/f at the time. I tried it and nothing out of this world. I think its perfectly fine when is just to experience.
If your trust is open w/ your b/f, let him know he might not even mind...
2007-02-16 15:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just curious, nothing wrong with it, but don't do something you might regret later in life. What if your child asks about it, what would you say??
2007-02-16 15:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋