I dont drive and its too cold to go on a bus. I have no money on me either and Im getting very aggitated and irritated.
I have no friends either, due to appeasing my bfs insecurities I have lost my friends and/or social life...do I have a right to become bitchy when he gets home from work?
I ve run out of ideas to keep the kid busy as well...and family is non existent, Im 26.
2007-02-16 07:34:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
you need to get out .. there are support groups out there.. or play groups.. alot of them are through various churches. I know there is a group called MOPS ( I believe it is through the lutheran church, I dont know if just my local one or if its nationwide) It provides socialization for mom and toddler.. the kids play and the mom's chat or what not. I'm a firm believer in the idea that moms need a break.... I have a 3 yr old myself.. I love him dearly but I'm glad I work.. I think I appreciate my kids, 14 and 2 much more when I'm not with them 24 hours a day.. I know that not everyone is like this.. This is just my 2 cents.
2007-02-16 07:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by stewartfj40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most two-year-olds have ODD (oppositional defient disorder), both my boys did when they were two (actually about 1.5-how old are they now?). This is not good for you or for the baby. Get out, recalim your friends and if the bf continues to have issues, dump him. You have every right to be bitchy but it isn't a good idea, people who are that controlling tend to get violent if pushed too much. There are a lot of things to do without money. Get on the bus or call a friend and head to the mall for a walk and some people watching. If you absolutely cannot get out of the house right now (I can't I have epilepsy so I can't drive and taking my kids on a bus is wrought with other dangers) open all the shades and throw on some sweaters. Crack the windows for a little fresh air and have the baby march around the house with you, don't ask him to, dare him to. Then roll over the floor around the house, then tape all the writing and printer paper you can find to cover one wall in the living room and give the room a makeover. Just something to keep your sanity. Without getting whiny or needy sounding, talk with your boyfriend about going stir crazy and ask him for his advice as a trusted friend and lover, he may just like the opportunity to play hero and get you out of the house. Mess up the house a little, make forts with clothes and sheets and rearrange the furniture even if it is in the way and crawl across it like the floor is water or lava, just be a kid too. That poor kid must be as bored as you are.
Good luck, and remember, you deserve friends and if he doesn't think that you can be trusted, maybe he can't be.
2007-02-16 08:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Huggles-the-wise 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I comprehend you're annoyed. atypical at that age is a wierd prognosis. he's extremely youthful. How became into he evaluated? attempt doing issues he likes, continually advantages the sturdy habit. Play or study to him, save it short nevertheless. A 2 300 and sixty 5 days old's interest span is short. once you have yet another grownup present day - bypass exterior for a walk. Nap while the child naps. Bitchy won't help the region. you would be able to additionally attempt calling your state dept of training or dept of well-being. If he has been clinically determined, they might also have a preschool software for him. on occasion those are even subsidized or unfastened. it ought to offer you a harm.
2016-11-23 13:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by campbel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lisa, put on a friggin' jacket and get on the bus.
Ditch the controlling bf and go reclaim your friends, family, and life.
No, you do not have the right to be bitchy when he gets home... you are accepting this as a life. It may not be your ideal life but by going along with it, you are agreeing. Being bitchy will also affect your child... he will see you and the guy fighting, etc and that is not in his best interests.
Wise up!!
2007-02-16 07:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ODD, ADD, ADHD......All labels meant to bring a disadvantage to a person for life. 2 is very young to be diagnosed with any type of personality disorder.
Run around with him, eat fruits and veggies rather then chips and soda. Get out of the house and out of that relationship. But you let it happen, so the one person you should be bitchy at is yourself. Only you can control the situations you allow yourself to remain in. Only you can make the decision to stay or go.
So what your bf is an insecure loser. That's only your problem because you let it be.
2007-02-16 08:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, wow. God bless your whole family.
Now, I know of a successful business owner and his wife, who have not one but TWO kids with major disabilities.
They get help, even with his income (which is still modest, true)
from
Catholic Charities.
And I believe they get some respite.
I have worked with kids with special needs, and lived with three.
I have been the 1-1 aide for a child with PDD (almost autism but not quite), and I know that if I lived anywhere near you, I'd be there to get you out and about sometimes!
God bless you for al the patience you;ve had, and bless you through the times when you lose your patience!
You know hwat?
email me afarrell627@yahoo.com
if you like.
Hang in there!
2007-02-16 08:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you asked, I'd advise getting away from the possessive, insecure boyfriend, like now. If you act like bitchy when he gets home, you're adding fuel to the fire. The child should be your priority.
2007-02-16 09:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of your insecure boyfriend, then you would at least have people to talk to. If the child is that bored why don't you suck it up and take him outside to play for a little bit. He'll probably burn a lot of energy that way.
2007-02-16 07:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow and I thought I had it bad! You need to get out of your rut and get a job and give the boyfriend the boot if he is insecure and possessive of you. You are not doing that baby any good by being in the situation that you are in.
2007-02-16 07:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship and the house theres no reason to live a life af fear and insecurity and living away from all forms of life get out girl.
2007-02-16 07:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋