My boyfriend&&I have been together for almost 7 months, and its been the longest one yet. I am not very old.=] umm, i love him soo much and i would do anything for him.. but i have been balancing out the good things about us[and him] and the bad things about us [and him] .. and it kind of seems like there are more bad things. But the good things will linger in my memory and drag me down and make me feel like i made the wrong decision. I have been thinking about this for the past like 2 months.. and its not good to doubt a relationship you are in, i know. But i have been. What should I do? I mean i dont like that he is disrespectful over the phone. But when we hangout.. which is on weekends only because its a long distant relationship..=[ we get along great.. adn neverr evrr fight. I love him soo much and i am just soo stuck. I know i would be beter off breaking up with him now, then in a year. Because i know we dont belong together.. especially at this age. What do you suggest?
2007-02-16 07:10:22 · 4 answers · asked by ♥DANyELLE. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're in High school, dump him. There is so much more out in the world. College & jobs will bring people you never knew existed into your life. Play the field while you can, find what you like in a person and what you don't like. And then one day you'll bump into someone you know you're to be with forever.
2007-02-16 07:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by psquaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time for you both to make a commitment. These long range romance really don't work out very well, because you are their and he is running around with another, most likely. I have seen this many of time while working overseas. Husband overseas and wife home playing around or husband playing around and wife beeing good. Take you pick... Do it or get off the pot!
Seven months you should know whats what...
2007-02-16 15:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by james k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... he's just trying to be "hard core" over the phone because he knows better than to say it to your face.... he doesn't mean anything by it, it's just what guys do... don't doubt him... it's just like us with PMS... but yea dont let it bother you. Why do you think it won't work? If you love him, and ya'll feel right for each other, than don't doubt the feeling... go with it.
2007-02-16 15:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE YOUNG-ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN. IF YOU WANT TO DO IT NOW, THEN DO IT NOW, YOU WILL GET OVER QUICKER THAN YOU THINK. YOU DONT WHAT TO LOOK BACK IN 10 YEARS AND REGRET ANYTHING. YOU WILL BE OK, JUST DO IT AND GET IT OVER WITH, AND ENJOY BEING YOUNG. BESIDES, THINK ABOUT ALL THE FUN YOU CAN HAVE WITH YOUR FRIENDS, AND YOU CAN LOOK FORWARD TO MEETING SOMEONE NEW.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-16 15:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by buzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋