i knw her through my mother as she is friends with her mother in law. I knew from the first day i met her i noticed she was very shy around me. she has said that im beautiful and that she wished there was someone like me. I dont know how she feels about me she has kissed me on my neck slowly caressed it and said i was her sweetheart to tell u the truth i loved it. Felt so nice. She even said too me once come round and fix my dishwasher settings for me as your good with DIY.but come during the day and not with your mum. She just thinks im so it for such reason. Whenever someone says something about me she sticks up for me. I have noticed when im sitting down she proper stares at me, but when i look at her she lowers her gaze. Thing is i didnt have feelings for her but recently have started to feel my heart beat faster i see her. Whenever muy mother goes to her house she always asks hows your daughter. Why is she so shy around me? why did she kiss me down my neck and say i was her swe
2007-02-16 07:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart. We are both asian, and she did get into an arranged marriage her parents arranged. I dont know if she is a lesbian or not im just so confused. Im falling for her. I always try too look into her eyes while im speaking too her but shes too shy too look into mine. Please dont say im a marriage wrecker as she did approach me first. Thing is when were together we just hit it off were always smiling.
2007-02-16 07:13:55 · update #1
she definitely wants you, but is very shy for reason:
1 - she is married
2 - you are her friends daughter
3 - you are younger
4 - she may not think you would like her
5 - she may not think she is attractive or has ever been with a girl before..
many varibles.
i don't think you are a home wreaker yet.. and i also don't agree with the marriage situation - people should be able to marry whom they want.
either way, you should take it slow, and maybe see where it goes, it could be a wonderful thing.. but be very careful of your mom & her husband! follow your heart.
good luck!
2007-02-16 07:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by a dork 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, I don't understand....she's a female.....you're a female.....nope, doesn't make sense to me.
....I guess I just love men too much. Mmmm.
Anyways back to your question, yeah it sounds like she's attracted to you. Which is odd, because she's obviously had sex with a guy to have 5 children....oh maybe she's Bi. Okay I get it now. Well anyways, careful with her, she's your mum's friend. If you do anything with this woman and your mum finds out....she'll probably need a whole lot of therapy.
2007-02-16 07:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Weeeellll....Try to ignore the sex of this lady - ie female - and think how you'd react (hopefully) if she were male. Is she married? Is she just messing you about with no intention of being in a relationship with you? Is she a good kisser? Patently the dame is crazy about you. I would stay away from her if your gut instinct is that nothing good will come of it.
2007-02-16 07:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her! Find someone knew. She is way older than you and sounds kind of strange. You'll meet someone better in the near future.
2007-02-16 07:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by sethjoseph2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you float her boat. If you have lesbian tendencies, why not!!! If you haven't, do not go there!
But you are being 'titilated' by the attention of another woman, so why not.
A WARNING...She is your mothers friend so it could all end a bit nastily. Tread carefully.
2007-02-16 07:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants you, but you need to be careful if she is your mothers friend it could cause some serious problems
2007-02-16 07:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will find that at 21 you are a woman not a girl, i also think from reading your question that you have led a fairly sheltered life, its obvious this woman wants more than friendship from you.
2007-02-16 07:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by jardon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMN that's hot!! What was the question again? I seem to have a lack of circulation right now.....
2007-02-16 07:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yuk. How awful.. I would run a mile
2007-02-16 07:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has the hots for you and probably wants to make love with you.......your call....
2007-02-16 07:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋