2007-02-16 07:08:24 · 19 answers · asked by Stephanie D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first off - why is it okay for a boy to hit you? No one should ever be okay with being physically abused. Typically men have more upper body strength and when they hit they can really do harm. I know you said you don't care if you get hit or not, but don't you want a boy/man to respect you and to love you? Please try to have some respect for yourself and realize that you should only allow a man to touch you with loving hands not hurtful ones.
2007-02-16 07:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Did you leave out part(s) of that sentence? If not, boys are scared to "hit" girls because it is WRONG. Never is it okay for a boy to hit a girl, nor is it right for a girl to hit a boy. You need a lesson in morals and respect. Also an etiquette class would do you wonders. How are you being raised? Where are your parents? Seek some counseling immediately.
2007-02-16 07:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should EVER hit anyone. Hitting is a form of violence, and most boys KNOW that if they hit a girl, they could go to jail for it. Besides, boys hit a LOT harder than girls do, and can do much more damage than a girl can. If you really don't mind being hit, or think that it is okay to be hit, then you should think about telling your parents how you feel about it. If they don't get some help for you, then perhaps you should speak to the guidance counsellor at school. I am not saying that you are a nut case or anything, but there is something very wrong about you feeling that it is okay for a boy to hit you. Please talk to someone about it.
2007-02-16 08:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boys, men-should be taught from the very beginning NOT to hit females. Boys who watch their father beat up their mothers will usually beat up their girlfriends or wives. That is one of the main reasons mothers should leave a relationship if they are being abused. They are only setting back examples for their children. The female children end up feeling like it's also OK to be abused because mommy was. Why do you feel boys should feel OK to hit girls? They probably look scared because they were taught NOT too!
2007-02-16 07:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its disrepectfull and if your in a realtionship with that boy it can be considered abuse. And you can get charged for that. Guys in general are alot stronger then girls and if they were to hit them with all of their strength that would hurt alot lol and its just not right. So be thankfull they dont hit you. The only person that should is your parents and thats only if you being diciplned. Even that is risky lol. No one should really lay hands on you only if its play and you both are joking. But play fighting can usually end up with someone getting hurt so just to be on the safe side. Boys should not hit you and you should care if they do.
2007-02-16 07:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Except for a few exceptions, most boys don't care to hit girls or think of girls as punching bags(maybe wrestle with them for other more friendly purposes). We rather punch on each other to see who's stronger, etc.Look at most sports. It man vs. man. The natural male aggression towards each other is played out. It's not a scared thing or societal thing, it's hard-wired negative gut feeling thing even if the girl want to hit a boy like it's nobodys business.
2007-02-18 10:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by dfunngun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a cultural thing; we're brought up to think it's morally reprehensible to hit girls on account of that they're not as physically strong. Plus this was back in the days when it was okay to say that women were the "weaker sex" and that.
2007-02-16 07:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by rocken_heimer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a good thing. Means he respects women and this will carry over to the rest of his life. I'm assuming you are an early teenager? Your years of rouph housing is over. It's not appropriate anymore. Don't push it. K? Let the changes happen.
2007-02-16 07:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that we are scared to hit women, it's agains our moral judgement. Women are much weaker and have far less threshold for pain than men do, not to mention men hit far harder than women.
2007-02-16 07:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by nshappe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys arn't scared. Real men just don't hit the ones they love. guys that abuse girls are complete a** holes
2007-02-16 07:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋