My boyfriend and I just broke up about a month ago and it has been tough on both of us. We still are in love with each other get along great, see each other, talk for hours and are still intimate. The only reason that we broke up is because our parents have an issue with us being together because they don't get along so it was causing a lot of problems. I don't care what anyone thinks but he does. He said that he still loves me but he doesn't miss the drama. We are both in our mid 20s and I really want to be with him. What should we do in this situation when neither of us want to let go?
2007-02-16 07:08:17 · 15 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK your in your mid 20s so there should be no problem with you guys being together your a adult start acting like one. Do what makes you happy I cant believe you would throw love away cause a issue your parent have they are the ones that need to deal with it not you.Go be with your man and one you two make a life together one day you could look back on this and have a good laugh at the foolishness.Good luck!!!
2007-02-16 07:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need to talk about what you want from each other. You're both adults, and though you love your families, ultimately you have to decide what makes YOU happy in your intimate relationships. If you're going to get back together you have to make sure both of you care more about each other than you care about what family members (or anyone else for that matter) think. If you allow outside influences to ruin this for you, and this really was the guy you loved and wanted to be with in the long term, you'll regret it for a long long time. Think about it, discuss it, and decide where to go from there.
2007-02-16 07:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by ultraviolenceland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of titles - you two are still seeing each other. You should get out of that situation, either he loves you or he doesn't. If he truly loved you then he would not care what others said or thought. You both would tell each set of parents to mind their own business and backed off. It seems like he is still getting the best part of you and you are just giving it to him. Either get in or get out - don't straddle the fence.
2007-02-16 07:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey follow your heart. If he respects you and treats you good then stay with him. My family HATES my man because he got into some trouble 3 years ago he has changed and i love him so its my deceasion not theres. Same for you it's your life girl not there's. You need to be sure you are happy first priority.
2007-02-16 07:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by adena20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to get back together I suggest you tell your families it's your choice and whilst they are entitled to their opinions you don't need to hear them. You are in your mid 20's, you can choose not to allow your relationship to be affected by your families.
2007-02-16 07:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.
2014-10-22 15:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's married now so might be his spouse has requested her mother in regulation to discontinue emailing his ex. It can not be comfortable for his wife to think that you'll comprehend everything about them from the marriage ceremony onwards. When is it going to discontinue? I believe it just did.
2016-08-10 16:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...you are in your MID 20's!!! you guys are both ADULTS. i know its hard to deal with family members not approving of your boyfriend/girlfriend. i've been there. but honestly, you have to be happy for yourselves and your families need to know that. i actually think it's very selfish of both your families to keep you guys apart because THEY dont like each other. you need to do what is best for you. you guys are not children anymore.
2007-02-16 07:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to read the book, "It's called a breakup because it's broken". I think it may be over for the two of you. He may be more of wanting to let it go than you but is keeping you around for selfish reasons. Listen to your parents and let it go. It's hard, but there are many many out there.
2007-02-16 07:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he would want to be with you no matter what. I could be wrong, but as an outsider, it seems as though he might just be using you for sex. You should move on and avoid contact with him unless he's willing to start dating again.
2007-02-16 07:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋