How can u ask someone if they have Mono without being rude.and especially if they like u!!?i just want to know if he does cause that s what ive been hearing and i want to know the truth.so help me please.and i dont want him to be mad at me or anything
2007-02-16 07:04:48 · 22 answers · asked by xoxoCanadianxoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest, honesty is the best policy, tell him that is what you heard and rather then judge him for yourself you want to go straight to the source. that is the best way than trying to beat around the bush about it.
2007-02-16 07:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, consider the facts first. Are you wanting to sleep with this person or just being nosy? It should only be your business if you are seriously considering being sexually involved. And if so, then tell him you are wanting to but would like for you to both be checked and share results. I have done that in the past. He was reluctant to. So the relationship ended there. I later found out about a year and a half later he had HIV. So I know it's not the same thing, but you can't be too careful when it comes to taking care of YOU.
2007-02-16 15:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to ask without risking causing offence. Are you at risk if you don't know? Do the people saying this have any reason to lie about it? You could mention you've heard some unpleasant rumours and let him ask what you've heard. Maybe you would be able to judge if there's any truth in the rumours by his reaction?
2007-02-16 15:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's as easy as asking someone if they have the flu. Just like you could get the flu if you kissed someone who had it, you could get mono if you kissed someone who had it. You could ask, do you have the mono flu? Mono's not a big deal. It's no fun to have it though. Ask if you can get him anything to help him feel better.
2007-02-16 15:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just ask, tell him what you had heard and that you want to get it cleared up.
or
you could get some brochures and just casually tell him you are trying to learn more about it. Ask if he has ever had it or knows of anyone that has.
No matter how much you like someone be sure your safe.
2007-02-16 15:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be up front with him about it ans be like ive been hearing something about u and ask him if he has mono and just be honest about it ans up front guys want a grl who wants to be real nad not keep anything from then u gotta be open and the only way to find out is to ask
2007-02-16 15:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think so hard about it and just ask. ask really nicely "are you feeling ok?? because i heard a couple people say that you have mono....." or something like that. no big deal!!
2007-02-16 15:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mono is no joke girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! make sure you get carried away by your feelings for him and kiss him. you could just ask him this quetion " Do you have the mono flu?" and tell him that you have heard rumours about him having mono.
2007-02-16 15:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that you are concerned about the rumors going around and that you would like to know the truth for yourself.
2007-02-16 15:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a potential boyfriend, he would be an absolute asshole not to tell you that he has a contagious condition. Wouldn't you agree? Why should you have to ASK him?
2007-02-16 15:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋