As a parent, when your children are grown and out of the house, if they happen to mess up in some way do you ever feel responsable, because if they turn out good many parents take the credit. From which direction should that thought be answered?
2007-02-16 07:02:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Best thing i can tell you, is that as a parent you try to teach them all the things they will need to know later on in life. Like right from wrong, to keep trying to succeed but don't get frustrated if they don't. Don't dwell on the failures..and though it's hard, you have to let them make their mistakes and hope they learn from them. No parent can make life totally problem free for their child, it's not reality.
2007-02-16 07:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, parents do have a lot to do with how their children turn out...it's their job to raise the children, BUT, there are other influences that mare involved as well. When i hit 14 I started doing a whole lot of things that I should not have done. I don't blame my mother, I was just a bad ***. Now that I am a parent, if my kids turn out to be bad asses, I can't blame myself or feel guilty. I know that my mom did the best she could with me and I'm doing the best I can with my kids and that's all you can do.
Our society is screwed and that does affect the turn out of children as well.
As far as taking credit for the good ones, who wouldn't want to? It's a part of human nature for parents to want to take credit for a child that turns out to be a doctor.
2007-02-16 07:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to take credit for things that turn out well even if you had little input. My psychology book stated that parents contribute only 10% of a person's personality and behavior. So if you tried your best and they still turn out bad, most of that is upon that person. Conversely if they turn out good, parents should be joyful and let your child know that they are a good person through their own work and effort.
2007-02-16 07:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by kclark747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they r adults they make their choses we can only be there to guide them if they choose not to listen there is not much more u can do. Just like children they learn from their mistakes.
2007-02-16 09:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋