I need to prove that I'm not gay. How do I get a girl?
2007-02-16 07:01:14 · 12 answers · asked by in_my2ndlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not need to prove that you're not gay. If people want to believe it, they will believe it even if you have a girlfriend.
You need to stop worrying about what others think. If you deserve to have a girlfriend, you will meet someone eventually, but not if you set out to use them just to prove a point.
If you really are interested in meeting someone who shares your interests, try volunteering, joining a club, or socializing at your church.
2007-02-16 07:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by tiffany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to prove anything to anyone except yourself!
Join a sports club & heaps of girls will love you maybe
or just join a youth group or a church where there are people your age etc & just be nice to girls & give the ones you like complements & flirt a bit with them etc
& mainly just relax & before you know it you will find her & often it will be the girl that is already in your life
2007-02-16 09:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you meet a girl you like ask her out..... just one date... see how that goes... if you enjoyed spending tme with her then ask her out anothe time... if she enjoyed spending time with you then she will possibly say yes... then if you still enjoyed her company ask her out again....
see that is how it works...
oh and asking her out does not always have to be to full dash romantic date either... if that is not your scene and you arent comfortable with dinner, dancing and such things the dates can be to things that are in your interest field...
and honestly a nice stroll through an art gallery, a museum, a park can really be a pleasant way to get to know one another..
My partner's first move on me was to ask me if I wanted a lift home and then to ask if I could play him the cd he heard me mention earlier in the afternoon..... clever man that got him to my house and in the door.... the rest is history... we met at a local spot where people from our neighbourhood just kind of gathered informally to chat...
Getting a girlfriend is not the great mystery it is made out to be... just be a little brave and ask a girl to accompany you somewhere you'd like to go... and go with the flow... dont try to force the situation...
Best of luck.
2007-02-16 07:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you prove ur not GAY well you call me and ill help you ok
but till then improve on your image and look like your not then when they take holt to the new you people will realize your a guy and you can get a girl.
Sarah
2007-02-16 07:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahaha.. why do you have to prove it?
anyway.. just talk to people. be confident and open to rejection, if you hit on 10 girls, the laws of averages says you may be rejected up to 7 or 8 times, so don't let that discourage you.. it's just how it is.
keep the chin up and good luck!
2007-02-16 07:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by a dork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to prove anything to anyone. But if you want a girlfriend just be yourself
2007-02-16 07:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by topenda25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to women, flirting with them, asking them out on dates, and who do you have to prove this too? if you know that you are not gay that is all that matters, you don't have to prove anythign to anyone but yourself.
2007-02-16 07:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to prove your not gay you probably are a jon amachei that gay basketball dude
2007-02-16 07:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by enano 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple go out with me. i am just kidding find out what girls like and then ask a girl out. there has to be someone who likes you.
2007-02-16 07:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
become outgoing. i know, it was hard for me too, but you wont regret it.
2007-02-16 07:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋