why do guy like only skinny girls?

Question

Why is that only the hot guys at my school only go out with the skinny, preppy, and pretty girls insted of girls that have good personalities?

Answer 1

I like girls with a little meat on them, and sometimes with alot of it, I dont like skinny girls you just have bones to bite on

Answer 2

OK because all the "hot guys" or "jocks" are very shallow, dull, emotionless people. They fit right in with the "skinny"
preppy" cheerleader types. That is all they know, and all they know how to be. And it's funny once highschool is over, unless they end up going to college together (if they even bother) or get a scholarship...most of the ones that relied on their good looks and "sports" skills don't make it. They end up being the gripy jerks at McDonald's, Wendy's or Burger King with an attitude at the window. They didn't spend time refining any people skills, an education, or work ethic...so for years they flop around...possibly go back to school and walk around with this chip on their shoulder like the world owes them something.
You don't want to bother with someone who can't see you for you. If all they see is the straight and narrow and the blonde preppy types...why waste your time? ANd why get upset about it? That is the way it is. Highschool is nothing but a bunch of drama and low life kids. When they get into college they get hit with the big reality check of "OMG I should have paid attention in school instead of being focused on girls and my not so good looks"
Don't sweat the "good looking jocks" they will come around one day...but it's usually too little too late

Answer 3

Most of the images of beauty in our society are of skinny models, so it's what we're "trained" to believe as the ideal.

However, you will find that as people mature into adults, sometimes figure doesn't matter so much. And that there are many males who are turned off by the super-skinny type, muttering "someone needs to eat a sandwich" when they walk by.

Some males even prefer a few curves. You have to be open to looking for someone who appreciates your entire person, not just your body. But that's not going to happen in high school, where everything is about style and appearance and what's cool and what's not.

Keep on being yourself, so that when you find the right guy, you know he likes you and not your physical appearance.

Answer 4

Young boys think that this is what they are supposed to do. They are young and dumb. Maybe some of these pretty girls actually do have good personalities... but the boys don't really care a great deal of the time.
When boys get older... or rather, more mature, they actually start to develop tastes in girls that are less about the magazines and more about their true feelings.
Young boys are TOLD that Paris Hilton is HOT and so they believe it... when they get older, they may realize that she is actually quite homely and skeletal... not very attractive at all.
Unfortunatley, as a young girl, you have to deal with immature boys. Hopefully you can meet a boy who has matured enough to have his own taste in girls rather than just going for girls that he is told he should like.
NOTE: Men are actually biologically more attracted to chubby wider hipped women... it's just the media that makes them think they like skinny.

Answer 5

Because they are still immature and don't know (yet) that true beauty isn't just on the inside. I know you have heard this before, but it is true!!! Why would you want to date anyone who can't see in your head or in your heart? All they see is what is on the outside. Besides, I am sure that those so-called "hot" guys are just as clueless as the preppy girls. You are too smart for that, aren't you? Maybe YOU should stop looking at just the HOT guys, and look for some fellow who can see the beauty in you. He may not be hot, but he may have heart, and be kind and good. Besides, no one stays HOT forever.

Answer 6

Beacuse they don't know about your personality. Get to know the person you're interested in through other things than showing off new clothes on the way to school, through common interests perhaps. Maybe the main problem is that guys mature so much slower and don't understand anything about the importance of personality until they're 30-something :-) Btw, I saw some other suggest watching "shallow hal" - it's a good advice, if nothing else - it's funny:-)
Good luck :-)

Answer 7

becaues they are looking at the wrapping of the package. everyone likes the gift with the fancy wrapping paper and a huge bow. why should their judgement of people be any different at this age.

when they get older and have opened many shiny packages only to find their contents damaged or empty will they start to realize that there might be more to the package than the way it's wrapped. But that takes a while AND SOME NEVER FIGURE IT OUT.

Maybe you should stop looking at the shiny packages too. Go find a nice guy who will adore you and do anything for you.

Answer 8

Because a lot of guys are very superficial. They only see what is on the outside. Beauty is only skin deep as they say but these guys have no idea what that means. Guys like - JIM - whose answer says a lot about his character. He thinks woman are just recepticals for sex and nothing more. They have no other use. I wonder if he has a mother and what he thinks about her? I feel sorry for these guys because there are a lot of people out there that are not perfect 10s that have a lot of love, etc. to offer, and these guys will miss out on that because they are so superficial.

Answer 9

It's because that's their preference and whom they may be attracted to by the look of things. Maybe they also see other things in the person they are dating? I don't know because people are attracted to different things when it comes to looks and personality.

Maybe you could do a survey and ask these guys yourself and get a more personalized answer? I have seen some very attractive men with women whom would be considered quite plain in some cases and visa versa. I guess when you are younger looks over personality really matter a lot to some people.

Just remember every one that responds to you out here will base their opinion on their observations of people. Check out some surveys online and check them out for yourself.

Surveys and Psychology Tests
http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/mind/index_surveys.shtml

Answer 10

that is a real good question cuz im one of those girls with whom every guy tells me well i just want to be friends and i dont want a gf right now and then u turn around the next day and hes with that tall preppy grl why soes it always have to be based on looks instead of whats on the outside. it really makes me mad because im a really great person im into all the guy stuff like muddin and camping and dirtbakes and stuff and yet i cant find one guy to date me just because i focus more on the important things instead of what i look like i wish that someone really new that answer

Answer 11

Most guys in middle/junior or high school usually go on apperance. I say let them learn that hard way that you need to see what is on the inside instead of looking at what is on the outside.

Don't stress out about trying to get a gentalman's attention, the right man will come to you when the time is right.

Good Luck