there this guy, i like him, and im kinda sure he likes me back, but he has a girlfriend. he says all these nice things to me, HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN HIS GIRLFRIEND, i ask him to stop but he won't and i find myself falling deeper for him, and becoming involved with something i dont want to be stuck in. HELP ME!!!
2007-02-16 06:55:18 · 34 answers · asked by Chiquita dulce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you likes you better, then he will dump his girlfriend for you.
2007-02-16 06:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you the truth, because I've been that guy. You go for him, you are being played. For him, it's a power trip... to play both girls at the same time. Obviously, if he treats you better than his girl, he's not giving regard to the person that should matter here. And sorry to tell you this- it's not you. That should tell you he's only thinking about himself. Why do you think he won't stop? He's challenging you, and you're being enchanted by his aggressiveness. He loves this control. But I GUARANTEE you. If you fall for it and end up with him... there won't be a challenge and he will eventually get bored of you. Because it was never really about you in the first place.
If you are honest with it, and think about it, you'll do the right thing. If you are hopeless and weak minded... I'll respond when you drop a question about why your new boyfriend keeps flirting too closely with another girl.
2007-02-16 07:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by orange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid him he's clearly bad news. He has a girlfriend. That should be your first sign to stay away from him. You might think he likes you and treats you better but you are probably kidding yourself since he's with her. Even if he dumped her for you , how could you ever trust someone like that? If you were his girlfriend and some other girl came along that he liked do you think he would change his behavior? He probably says nice things to you because he's trying to get some on the side. Whatever his game his, he's dishonest and I wouldn't give him the time of day!
2007-02-16 07:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it may appear he is being nicer to you than his girlfriend, you don't really know what goes on when he is alone with her. If he likes you that much - then he should break up with his girlfriend so the two of you can pursue a relationship. PLEASE do not start anything with him while he is still with her. If he is willing to see both of you at the same time you should really think about what this says about his true character. Do you want a man who views it okay to still be on the hunt while he is in a relationship? Do you want him to be out looking while he is dating you? Think things over and be careful. Good luck.
2007-02-16 07:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is amazing ,but whenever I have a girlfriend,it seems that women immediately zone in on this and consider it a challenge to steal a guy away from his date/girlfriend.
I get more looks,get hit on ,more smiles,and have more women come up to me and talk to me when I am with a lady.
When I go somewhere alone,the percentage of women that find me interesting diminishes drastically.
I think you should really think of the reasons why you want this guy,it may be because it is just a challenge to you to see if you can sway his interest away from his girlfriend.
Once you get this guy,you will move on to your next prey.
I think I am right,and let me know if I am wrong,but I think not.
2007-02-16 07:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with a guy who would treat someone else better? What makes you think he wouldn't do it again? He may be the type who wants someone and as soon as he has them he is ready to find something new. Find someone who is available. You deserve better.
2007-02-16 07:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh brother, help yourself, he likes his girlfriend and your a mere side line. stay away from them, if call you or reaches out to you first thing out of your mouth is, how is your girlfriend doing, what have you two been doing. if he says they broke up tell him hes on the rebound and your not getting invovled for at least a month then see what he does - if he waits for you for a month than maybe it real but if he goes back to her - thats what he really wanted all along. its fun to flirt hard to committ
2007-02-16 07:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by mdbuchanan2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait and lay back for a while and see how he reacts to it and if he really misses you being around im sure he will make way to be with you....maybe even break up with his girlfriend. You never know...just wait and see what happens.
2007-02-16 07:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Punkgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well answer this: How will YOU feel when YOU are the girlfriend and he is sweet talking some other chick? If you can honestly say you are fine with being treated like trash and being cheated on then please go ahead and date this guy.
2007-02-16 07:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by fire_goddess444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE. He has a girlfriend. If he's treating you better than his girlfriend, he is a horrible boyfriend and you don't want anything to do with him. Plus, you don't want to be a homewrecker. Drop the situation, don't talk to him, forget about it.
2007-02-16 06:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Julie K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the decent thing and leave him alone. If he really likes you he'll end his current relationship to be with you. If not, find someone who's available, you wouldn't like some girl going after your boyfriend would you?
2007-02-16 06:58:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋