He says it was great...you're a great package...blah blah blah...then the e-mails drop off, phone calls drop off...says he's busy with his kid but still wants to talk to you...What is up with that? What's the deal with this guy??
2007-02-16 06:46:27 · 23 answers · asked by Dating genius 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you were too beautiful or confident, outgoing, self assured. It doesn't have to be a negative issue. Just maybe you spooked this guy :) Give him some time to recover.
Try not to put all your eggs in one basket when dating. Its about finding the right person RIGHT? So, give yourself some options...some choices. Done the right way, dating should be fun...
2007-02-16 06:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the hotel thing, sharing one bed, is a bit too much too soon, and may turn out to be a total disaster, as you're both really strangers still and expecting a close intimate relationship on the first date, is way too obvious. By all means stay at the hotel, but separate bedrooms..and leave the back-up plan at home ! be a gentleman, she'll appreciate this far more.. As regards your personality, you obviously have been in contact for some time, so just say and act as though you're still both on the media sites.. don't be what you're not, and recognise that she will be nervous too, and possibly shy, so take it slow.. and don't expect an instant 'rapour'..it's quite different person to person. Other than this you'll be fine, just see how it goes, add no 'pressure' for a second date.. if she wants too, and you do too, this will be arranged naturally. Enjoy, good luck and have fun.. lots of it a friend x
2016-05-24 07:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all the time with online dating. I've met a lot of people online, and sometimes people just drop off the face of the earth for no reason. Maybe he was being polite, maybe his priorities in life changed, there's no way to know.
Consider it a good dating experience, but just not the one. After all, if he was the one, then he'd be in touch. The quicker you learn to not ask why or demand an explanation, and move on, the more you'll grow and become a more attractive person to the next guy you meet.
2007-02-16 06:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by cycling_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe you are not his type, and he didn't want to hurt your feelings, or he really could be busy, I would give it a week or two and then see, if he continues to blow you off for that period of time or makes no effort to contact or talk to you move on and find someone else.
2007-02-16 06:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your name is a misnomer...he's not really that interested now that you've met. Move on. It doesn't matter why-he met someone he likes more, he's actually too busy, he isn't interested, etc...the result is the same-he's not crazy about you enough to keep in active touch like he was before the date. That's all you really need to know.
2007-02-16 06:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to tell I think you should just come right out and ask him what its all about. Why he says one thing but is acting differently
Tell him to Walk the talk a get with the program. He really has to let you know what is going on?
2007-02-16 06:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the interest ever picks up again, then he's telling the truth about being busy. But I think chances are that he's decided you're not his type and he doesn't want to be straight about it.
2007-02-16 06:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has nothing good for u.He had a good time pass & somehow he got bored now.thats it.its ur mistake too.y indulge deeply with a guy having kids? He has no good intentions towards u or else he wudnt have said "i am busy with kids but still want to talk to u".
2007-02-16 06:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't know him. He could be married, have a live in GF, or just a jerk who plays women. That's the danger of meeting people online. Forget about him. He's a phony.
2007-02-16 06:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be that he is honestly busy or that he is worried about commitment...give him some space and time, if you are a great package like he says he will come around, and if not them move on hun. all the best!
2007-02-16 06:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋