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About to have a baby sounds like it's another woman involved and you've forgiven him, but his attention is elsewhere.
If this is true, then nothing wrong with that. You two have grown in different directions, is all.
From the sounds of it, memories is all you have now and he's apparently preoccupied with other events in his life.
Wish him well and support him from a distance. Who knows, things may change in the future and you all can reconnect.
But, clearly, you should move forward - given the circumstances..
One love.............
2007-02-16 06:46:23
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answered by HottNikkels 5
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Sometimes letting go of the past is not easy. Obviously he has moved on, and even though one should not give up that easy in certain situations, but, in some cases like this one is better to move on. He has created or started a new life and includes baby, he may still have feelings for you but, as you can see not as before. Please, need to move on and yes love hurts but, you are a strong person and just cherish him in your memories. Nothing more and nothing less.
2007-02-16 06:46:52
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answered by Mina 1
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For the sake of the child that is about to be born , stop talking to this man. Regardless of the situation, the child deserves every chance for his mother and father to try as hard as they can to be together. If you continue talking to him you will pose a threat to the mother of his child and the child. You will also continue to lead yourself on and have hopes of the two of you being together. You will never fall out of love with him and will continue to ruin any chance that you may have at finding someone that will truly love you and share your life with. You definately need to move on. Both for the sake of yourself, your future happiness, and the innocent child that is being brought into this world. He/She deserves to have a father in it's life without someone lingering around with deep feelings for their father. I'm not lecturing by any means and, deep down I'm sure you know that you need to move on. Do what's right for yourself and his unborn child. You both deserve happiness and the chance at a wonderful life.
2007-02-16 06:49:52
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answered by Maxine 2
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Honey move on. He seems to be starting a life with someone else. You are becoming a stalker. You don't want to be like that. You should want more for yourself. Get with some girlfriends and work on getting over this guy.
Good luck
2007-02-16 06:51:14
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answered by answergirl 3
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Oh Hun. MOVE ON. sounds like something i was in minus the baby. sorry to say, but usually once a cheater, always a cheater. you desreve much better than that.
2007-02-16 06:42:43
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answered by carriec 7
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Move on Miss. Lady! In the matters of the heart, yeah its hard to grasp. But if he's having a baby by someone else, he doesn't want you b/c he was careless enough to get someone else pregnant. Yeah it sucks, but keep it moving!
2007-02-16 06:45:44
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answered by ladyP 3
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You should do exaclty that...move on! There are 2 many complications there....As much as you want to hold on b/c you love him it will just end up hurting you in the end...You deserve more then that and someone that will give you their all and not have all those complications.
2007-02-16 06:42:48
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answered by beautifully_broken 1
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Only YOU know how much you are willing to put up with, but from my experience I must say it is only gonna get more complicated with his new childs mother! MOVE ON now before you are attached to his new child.
2007-02-16 06:51:30
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answered by Domonique 1
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To make your life better you need to move on because he will always put his baby and his baby moma before. So don't waste your time let him go. I been there
2007-02-16 06:44:36
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answered by topenda25 1
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You know the answer. If you even have a doubt or thought of needing to move on, then you need to!
2007-02-16 06:42:56
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answered by Encouragement 3
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