2007-02-16 06:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Keila Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't think you should ever get back with your ex, you probably shouldn't. Your gut is your best instinct - there is a reason you broke up. You will always love your ex, just not "in" love with him.
2007-02-16 06:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by dubstar23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who broke up with who (for what reasons)- and also if you are both still single...
If you broke up with him and he is still single then you could condisder getting back together. If he broke up with you then he is probably over you and you need to move on. If it was a mutual break up then maybe talk to him and see if he is interested in starting over. But honestly from my previous experiences with an ex and getting back to together-it usually doesn't work! someone will just end up getting hurt again. and there is always a reason for a break up..just keep that in mind.. I hope this helps you out.
2007-02-16 14:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its not easy. I have been there and done that. I had to remind my self over and over as to why we broke up. Of course a part of me still loves him, but than i knew that there was so much more love that i could offer to the right man. Just dont date until you know that you will not be thinking about your ex while you are with someone eles. Not fair to new guy and not fair to you.
2007-02-16 14:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation.....I'm guessing he did something to hurt you or its a bad relationship? But you know your so in love with him and you think the way he makes you feel can erase all the bad things that happen....but they won't the bad cancels out the good....If your having second thoughts about if you need to be with him or not you probally don't....as much as that sucks you need to just give it time...You will think about him and evreything for awhile...but just give it time to work out on its own...If you are meant to be with him you will.
2007-02-16 14:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by beautifully_broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seems to me you already know the answer... If you think you should ever get back with him.. then move on, forget him...give somebody else the opportunity...when it appears!
2007-02-16 14:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by myself! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there...
You need to morn... feel the loss... really feel it... listen to sad music... cry... find a friend who can listen... find more sad music... cry... cry... cry until you are numb... then think back of all the good things... (cry more if you need to)... think again of the good things... of how that person helped you better yourself...
To yourself thank them... and be glad you met them... but then remind yourself why you must not date them... and be firm with yourself...
--- in my opinion the whole key to this is to fully mourn that loss... really feel it and let it go... ---
2007-02-16 14:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by AvidBeerDrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is there to decide if you think you shouldn't go back to him. You need to really think about what you want to do you can let other people decide for you its up to you.
2007-02-16 14:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new guy and hope he fulfils u enuf to forget the old guy....
2007-02-16 14:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by BratX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it moving...
2007-02-16 14:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by Nisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends.
2007-02-16 14:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by channel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋