My friend met a guy on myspace and has been having a long distance relationship with him for about a year now. Mind you they have never met eachother in person. She has cried over him several times because when they are suppose to meet eachother it never happens. Since this relationship is based on phone conversations she decided she will keep him for that until he's ready and still go out and have fun. But I know deep down inside it hurts her. Do you think that everything this guy tells her is only what she wants to hear? Who even knows if he gave her his real name or even real age. Is he really the person he says he is? Would someone really do something like that...for a year...and to hurt that person? What do you think he's up to?
2007-02-16 06:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by flctya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy were all he told your friend he was (hell, even if he were 75% of what he's told her), he would have met her by now.
For all she knows, he's a 50-year-old married father of six just playing games with her to boost his ego. That she has cried over him (hello! If it even is a "him"!) even once is ridiculous.
Time for her to face reality and move on.
2007-02-16 06:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Internet is a world where you can be anything you want. If the person is hi dding behind the computer there is a problem. If they never met there is no relationship Your friend needs to be smart. #1 anyone can set up a my space account. #2 How does she know that the pic they sent is the person on the phone. #3 How does she know that this guy is not a petafile. She needs to think why is she wasting her time with a dead end. Internet romance is no way to live.
2007-02-16 14:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever this guy is up to, you cant be trusted. He's only a person on the net, and you can be anyone you want to be one the net. He's just toying with; that's probably why every time they were supposed to meet, they didnt. Tell her it's no good and that she should just fall for someone she meets in the flesh first.
2007-02-16 14:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am being seriously here ok Maybe you and your friend should call the Mury show and explain the situation with him and maybe they can meet for the first time on TV it could be romantic, but it could also be a bad thing if he is not single or if he is the person he says he is Good Luck
2007-02-16 14:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is up to something. one year and yet to met? sounds fishy. talk to your friend and be there for her. take her out and met guys who are in your town and not on a computer. sounds like he is playing with her mind and heart.
2007-02-16 14:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes married or a molester. Do you know of a way that you could have him checked out? If you do then do this before your friend gets hurt or even worse god forbid.
2007-02-16 14:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the man is married. If you look at the facts, it would appear he is living out his fantasy of being unfaithful without being unfaithful. She would do well to remember that most men are only as faithful as their options. As long as she allows him to string her along...he will.
2007-02-16 14:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tom H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is don't trust anybody , i never trust my best best friend , so what do you think about a guy i never see him or i don't know him .so if you really love your friend you should told that she will fall in a big mistake that will hurt her so mush all her life .
2007-02-16 14:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really into her he would have met her already. I think your friend should hang it up and holler "NEXT". Life is too short for silly mess like that.
2007-02-16 14:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Nisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can believe 50%.
2007-02-16 14:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by Naren_RocksU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋