WE WAS TOGETHER FOR 3 YRS, AND I GOT TIRED OF HIM NOT HAVING MONEY AND GOOD JOB. SO I MOVED ON WITH MY LIFE. NOW I REALIZE ONE YEAR LATER THAT I MISS HIM AND MATERIAL THINGS DONT MATTER. I JUST WANT MY FAMILY BACK TOGETHER.
2007-02-16 06:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by babystlluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you broke it off for those reasons you probably won't get him back, you left him because he had nothing and you now you can't do any better so you got slapped in the face and now want him back he has probably moved on himself so just leave him alone you made your bed now sleep in it..
2007-02-16 06:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go crawling on your hands and knees begging and pleading us guys have been doing that for 1000's of years and seems to work pretty well if you relly want him back you have to pretty much give up all self respect and just beg most people will tell not to even try if you left him in the first place but i assume you have already got past that and are ready to do what it takes simply say im sorry im a horriable person i cant believe what i did to you and the children if you forgive me i'll be better than i ever was before i know now this is what i really want and i just needed time to figure it out sorry for what i did to you
a big problem people make in these sort of things is that they make it about them dont do that it's about him and how you hurt him so try to talk about yourself as little as possiable emphisis on how you made him feel is good and on what you did wrong is good thats what he wants to hear not how you needed to fin your self and what you needed forget talking abut that he'll just say to himself well what about what i needed? i couldnt just run away i had to stay is what he'll be thinking if you go down that line so make the apolpogy about him and only about him it's all you can really do
2007-02-16 06:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A humble apology would do the trick. I'm sure he's a bit hurt but misses you as much as you miss him. Give him a call and tel him you'd like to meet him. Pick a restaurant or heck even a parking lot somewhere and sit and talk with him. You'll be back together in a minute!
2007-02-16 06:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Paul V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you have come to the realization that people are more important than money; however, if this man has decided the relationship is ended, forget him and move on. Hopefully he will continue to be a good father. Good luck.
2007-02-16 06:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to speak to him and let him know how you feel and that you were desperate at the time. Obviously there is love in between and that is the major thing that he needs to be aware of.
2007-02-16 06:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by 7 Habits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact him and apologize, sincerely, and thoroughly. I suggest apologizing several times and being very candid and honest. It would be good for your son to have you with his father again as well. Beyond that, what do you have to lose?
2007-02-16 06:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by findingselflove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋